I just started seeing a girl a couple of weeks ago but I'm keeping something from her. I'm moving to another country in march to pursue my career. I don't know what to do because I really like this girl and I know if I tell her she will most likely end it. I want to enjoy my time with her before I go, but then it will be even harder to leave. What do you suggest?
2006-12-15 02:57:16 · 12 answers · asked by danyol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats a tough one, I can only begin to imagine how you must feel.
I think honesty is the best policy, you have to be sraight with her its unfair on both of you to keep this from her. She may well call it all off but she may also feel the same way you do and want to enjoy your time together. Tell her how you feel just be honest to her and yourself.
Take care now and good luck with this and your move in March
2006-12-15 03:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to be honest with her and tell her the truth. Stop and think for a little bit what wonderful and maybe unique opportunity you have in your hands. No many people have the chance to go to another country to continue studying. So no "girl" right now should be an impediment for you pursuing your dream. I wish the best luck on you decision.
2006-12-15 11:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by jazmin v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her!!! She should know, I bet she likes you and would want to spend more time with you before you move. Maybe she will still talk to you over the phone and stuff when you move. Give it a shot and tell her ...
2006-12-15 11:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bwitt Bwitt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her. If you really like each other you can work things out. If you don't tell her until you leave she most likely will feel like she was led on.
2006-12-15 10:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would she end it? because you came from somewhere else to make your life better? or because you didn't tell her int he beginning!? well heres what i have to say i would tell her but let her know you weren't trying to hide it from her you were afraid of her rejecting you for some reason or you've been trying to tell her you were jsut afraid of losing her because you weren't 100% honest in the beginning!
2006-12-15 11:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by tluckie313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. You might be surprise, if things work out maybe she wants a change of scenery too.
2006-12-15 11:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by CA DIVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her! Would YOU like to be left without any knowledge of it? No, of course not! Be open!
2006-12-15 11:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by D.E.P. & B.N.W. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her also let her know you still want to do things together however you need to be careful so you or her wont get hurt
2006-12-15 11:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Tracy P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her,if you really do like her then you dont want to hurt her anymore than you have to.
2006-12-15 10:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She deserves to know, wouldnt you want to know if she left?
2006-12-15 10:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋