I was just curious about masturbationg. I am a young male that is 21 years old and I know a lot of pretty girls at my college but for some reason I am paranoid about masturbating to them because I see them so often and am afraid I will feel weird around them. Some of them have boyfriends and some are just friends. No real prospects right now with these girls. So instead I tend to masturbate a lot to women like Britney Spears, Katie Holmes, Camilla Belle, Rachel McAdams, Jessica Biel etc... Girls I know I have no shot with and dont know me. Is this better to do or does it really matter? Will I feel any different either way?
I guess part of the sexual fantasies is treating the women as a sex object. Maybe I dont want to offend. I usually picture these women wearing a short skirt with no panties on bending over. I have a hard time doing that thinking about a friend. I do have a friend Jackie who I am tempted to masturbate about but still am wondering if I will regret it. Will I?
2006-12-15 02:54:55 · 9 answers · asked by donniesmello 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Everyone has fantasies about people they know. It's OK.
2006-12-15 03:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
thats the great thing about masterbating!!! you think of who ever you want i (as a female) like to creat the perfect person lol paris hiltons rear with jolies face and fergies chest or pitts face big bens body visa versa let lose and go to town !!!!! and no you wont regret it
2006-12-15 03:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by delichottie 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It can't hurt, unless they can read your mind, which I highly doubt they can do.
If the problem is your own feelings of guilt, then you can keep telling yourself it's okay until you feel less guilty about it. Fantasize about whatever person you feel most comfortable fantasizing about.
2006-12-15 04:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What ever goes on in your own mind is your secret and nobody elses. I dont think you will see your friends in any other light than what you see them in now.
2006-12-15 03:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by dewhatulike 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats kind of only a question that I think you can find out by doing it...... you may feel weird around them or just as much you feel more aroused when around them and they may notice :-o...
either way its totally normal...
2006-12-15 03:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by crystal j 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Normal all the way....but i say....leave the hand and try a women and u won't ask your self this questions so much:)))
2006-12-15 03:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by Hadjy 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well it is healthy better than raping of course. you go with the flow. release the energy. you can't help whom u fantasize about.
2006-12-15 14:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its REALLY up to u.
2006-12-15 03:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by mia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. be happy.
2006-12-15 03:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by stardust 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋