The guy i love cheated on me. We're not together but I still really care for him. I'm going crazy. Should I try to get him back and forgive him? Or should I just move on to someone else?
2006-12-15 02:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by ~*Zaidens Mommy*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The truth is! Even if the person [man or woman] who you love does something that you do not like...you cannot hate them.....if you succeed in doing that .....you never loved them in the first place!
Do you remember the names and faces of people who've done wrong to you in the past? Not all do you?
But this one person you do! Becoz you love them...and you even might remember the times spent with family or friends distinctly...coz you love them and want their welfare.
Nobody gets angry at people for they do unless they love them and care for them...everything else is an act put up for achieving a motive.
2006-12-15 06:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...
If he cheated once, he will do it again. No matter how much you want to, you can't change him.
It will hurt like hell for a long time and it will probably be one of the hardest things you have ever done, but you are worth it and you will be better off without him.
2006-12-15 10:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want him back, first you should wait for him to make his move like if he asks for forgiveness, in that way you'll know if it's worth it to get back with him, try to know if he really does love you.. you shouldn't try to get him back without him doing anything.. he might just take you for granted in the future cause he knows that you are weak without him..
if he didn't to anything move on it means he really doesn't love you and you deserve some one better
2006-12-15 10:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by autopilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your happiness is the most important thing......do u love him or do u love being with him.
in my opinion though if u let him get away with it once he'll do it again
2006-12-15 10:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by little_coz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where there is smoke, there is fire.....forget him and move on quickly
why do you want to be with someone like that
2006-12-15 10:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Folow your hearth !!! that's the most important thing
2006-12-15 10:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Zero Cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you're not together you can't say he cheated. if he knew u luved him when he did that, DUMP AND PASS ON.
2006-12-15 10:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by gabriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no help for...you!....i say......committ suicide...
2006-12-15 10:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by mjkwoopghvg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋