I'm 14 and his 19, I know he likes me to and I wouldn't mind going out with him but I'm scared that he has other things on his mind like sex!
2006-12-15 02:24:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK if your 14 I understand why you want a guy...Cause I'm 15. But you're totally right. Boys like him only care about sex. Guys don't really mature until their like 30 and some don't mature at all! So just be patient and date some younger guys for a while. In a few years you might not even be interested any more.
2006-12-15 02:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rose F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used 2 b in your situation; I was 15 & he was 31!!! Yes, he wanted sex...he was really nice & sweet, but men want 2 charm u & u won't see the "real" him til you've know him 4 at least a year. Us girls usually want 2 believe that maybe he's a good guy, but u won't know unless u make him wait. If he pressures u 2 much or makes u feel like you're doing things u don't want 2 do, then he's not a good guy 4 u. My advice is MAKE HIM WAIT & use it as a test 2 c how long he sticks around. I didn't have that chance...my mom called the cops & had him arrested, but looking back on it now, I don't blame her. Whut kind of 31-year-old man "really" wants 2 have a meaningful relationship with a 15-year-old CHILD!
2006-12-15 10:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Miss B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to steer clear of the guy. Any 19yr old guy who is flirting with a 14yr old girl has got a problem. Unless he is completely retarded he would have to know that it is just plain wrong. You are still a child at 14, even though you may feel a lot more mature. He definately has sex on his mind, there is no other reason he would be interested in someone as young as yourself. It sounds as if you have a crush on this guy. Do yourself a favour and be smart and steer clear of this guy, there is something very wrong with him. The fact that you posted this question kinda tells me you already know that something is not right here!
2006-12-15 10:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by Janine E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red flag, red flag! Warning! Warning! Any 19 year old guy who is interested in a 14 year old has ulterior motives. Sorry to say, he wants you for sex. The maturity level of a 19 year old is WAY higher than that of a 14 year old. The five years, in this case, makes a huge difference. Run, don't walk, away from this one. If you were 21 and he was 26, I'd say go for it. But that's not the case. Do yourself a favor and live your life free of this dude.
2006-12-15 10:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Paul T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. so when I was 14, I dated this 19 year old guy. And I'm not saying that all guys are like this, but that was all that this guy wanted. Luckily, I didn't let my hormones make an awful decision for me. He was my first kiss and once I told him I wasn't ready for sex, he told me I was too young for him! So if you do like this guy, I can't tell you not to see him or anything. Just keep your virginity (if it's still there) and dignity. You'll be glad you waited. Seriously.
2006-12-15 10:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Doesnt Matter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... yes, that's all he wants, seriously. I was 16 and seeing a 25 year old and I broke up with him becuase all he wanted was sex. You're better off without that pressure. Find someone your own age...
2006-12-15 10:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol.I agree on the other guy's post.He is too old for u at that age.Unless u want to lose ur virginty when ur 14,do not date him.Be careful,sweetheart
2006-12-15 10:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by camy_lavy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest thing on his mind should be that if he has sex with you that you are still a minor and he could be charged with statutory rape.
2006-12-15 10:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a touchy question because if you really like him then i think that it is okay but dint feel privileged because he is 19 and you are 14 because he might just be out for sex
2006-12-15 10:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by octashiathamoneymaker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are way to young to be dating a 19 year old. That would be called satutory rape.
2006-12-15 10:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by The Dark Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋