That if you come here to get opinions on various things when it comes to sex & relationships, people automatically assume that you are a promisicuous wh*re?
Seems "Twizler"...has a problem with me. If you don't like my questions, don't answer them.
2006-12-15 02:18:12 · 23 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can take constructive criticism just fine, but if it is "you are such a sl*t" for every question I ask, it can get a bit much. And yes, If 27 is considered young, then yes, I guess I am.
2006-12-15 02:59:24 · update #1
I agree with you socks!!
and if you ask ONE question about sex, they do assume your are a who.re and then they report you.
2006-12-15 02:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No matter where you go, and who you tell your problems to, people will judge. It happens everywhere. And, we are blessed to have so many opinions in the world. However, some people should not say anything at all, if it is not positive. There is no excuse for hurting someone's feelings. This is a great place to get a broad spectrum of opinions, and when we ask for other peoples opinions, we have to accept the good with the bad! Sorry honey for your experience. Just keep being a part of this site, and eventually we hope that the good will outweigh the bad!
2006-12-15 10:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some peoples kids are just a$$h0!3$ and shouldn't be allowed to interact with the rest of us. But , you'll have that everywhere. It's easier to assume the worst and bash someone if you are a loser that can't get a real woman. Twizler is just upset because you have a life and he just sits typing "one-handed" for hours cause he has no life. Maybe one of these days he can save up and get a hooker for the night. I'm sure his mom would give him a discount if he asks her before she goes to work at the strip bar. But, now he can have a problem with me too.
2006-12-15 10:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now I believe ur calln the kettle black. U just assumed urself that everyone else is makin assumptions about u. Honey, u com n here 2 ask ?s... If ur the insecure type, please dont ask the ?s. Most people, as prolly including urself too... hav a spontaneous answer by the time u finish reading the ?s. Right? Well, some of us put those answers on here... it's an instant, & honest gut response to the ?, which is what most people want - or n some cases, NEED! - rather u like it or not. Just tak them as "instant responses".... we all do it. BTW... we r all intitled to our oppinions, and sometimes we dont lik others!
2006-12-15 10:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by bbygirl529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because narrow-minded people don't believe in the innocence behind any sex-related question. Some people don't always like to believe there is nothing more than knowledge seeking when it comes to asking those type of questions; their own insecurity about their sexuality leads them to lash out or be judgmental towards others, who aren't as "repressed".
2006-12-15 10:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by msvlyn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isnt this an open forum where everyone is entitled to their own opinion...sems like maybe we are a little sensitive. You can dish it out, but cant take it maybe? I am just here to have fun, maybe you shouldnt take this so serious. Then again, you are young.
I dont see how I was rude or out of line...if anything, you should apologize for putting me out there in your post, and dont be so sensitive...
2006-12-15 10:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Twizler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the people who make those remarks are either just stating their own personal opinion or are just jealous if you will, that another person has enough balls to say the things that they are too scared to ask (for the whole point that someone might pass judgment on them) or maybe they're just disgruntled because they aren't getting laid...lol...I wouldn't pay any mind to it....Take care:)
2006-12-15 10:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes me laugh at how many people come here to contribute their 2 cents worth - and they have nothing intelligent to say. Just consider the source, and disregard their comments - they can't help being stupid.
2006-12-15 10:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cultural, and its hypocritical. Our society is infused with Christian values, and yet all of our external actions are anything but. We say killing is bad, yet we do it in Iraq. We say sex is bad, yet pornography is one of the most profitable industries. We say idolization is bad, but we glamourize the lifestyles of the rich and famous and our most popular tv show is American IDOL.
Our society is full of these double standards -- and many are against women. Like why are women whores when they sleep with many partners and men are pimps -- and that's cool. Why is lesbian sex cool and gay male sex taboo? The list goes on and on.
2006-12-15 10:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by TCO_25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know! i ask some hypothetical question, looking for advice from some people that are more my age and i get slammed. also, there are some middle aged married people on here, what in the hell are they doing on here? this is 'single and dating.' yes, you are definitely not alone!
2006-12-15 10:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Socks, I have never thought of you as a Ho. Don't know if you are promiscuous or not. I have always thought you are an open and smart woman just trying to make it through life.
2006-12-15 10:22:02 · answer #11 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋