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Question

There is a guy that I have known for some time. When I first met him about a year ago he was really sweet to me and always looked in my eyes and gave me nice compliments and tried to help me with stuff. Over the last 2 months though I have noticed a change. When I used to walk in the room before he was really smiley and welcoming. Now though he looks down like hes really shy and embarrassed although hes still smiling, and finds it hard to talk to me and look at me. He seems really nervous. He speaks really softly to me, still wants to do all he can to help me though and really bigs me up to others. He tried really hard in the beginning to get me to notice him and now that I am falling for him he seems a bit different. My friend thinks its because hes gone from the fancying stage to something much deeper and he is frightened of doing or saying something stupid now. He asks questions that are much more personal like about my daughters and my ex. He stares at me intently when I answer.

What I want to know is how you think he feels?

Answer 1

I think, by reading this that the man is in love with you and does not know how to deal with this, also, he is unsure of your feelings towards him. He does not want to state his feelings and lose his friendship with you if you dont feel the same. It's the old saying, if you cant say something positive, dont speak at all. He is NOT postive about your feelings. Now you are falling for him, let him know that it is ok and let your love blossom, talk to him alone, very straight and very quick

Answer 2

hello babe
it sometime does happen that the guy has really loved u very much in the begining and he was trying constantly to gain ur attention ... as time passed there might some guys who told something abt u like ... u never liked him .. u have a family to take care of and he may not be priority in ur life ... eventually u too have done something same time which made him believe the ppl who told him something as correct

and now as time passes he respects u but feels guilty that he was trying to seduce u in wrong way ... he has no bad feeling for u but feels really embrassed by his deeds .. he is loving and concerned abt u and ur family so he makes an attempt to be at least a good friend

now it is upto u to take him or drop him ... he is now mentally prepared for both the things .. i say ur missing something if u lose him ... be brave and make him feel good

all the best

Answer 3

Maybe he has merged past the trying to capture your attention phase, to the "let me show you the real me" phase. We all wear many faces, and what you need to do, is give him some sign that you like him back. Invite him over, share some time with him. Perhaps he thinks you are not interested!! And, that makes him quite. Perhaps he is longing for you!! Perhaps he feels defeated, and that he has no chance with you. Give him the idea that you want more. And, make the first move! The worst thing that can happen is that he says no, and then you are no worse than where you are now! At least you will know for sure!

Answer 4

He might be feeling insecure, and think hes going to lose you. This could be because of something he heard or the things you never talk about or he might want to get a little deeper in the relationship with you and wants to know how others will react. But it all most sounds like hes guilty of something. Start asking him what he thinks about you and your pass and see how far he talks. And if hes like any of my friends he talks more when he drinks alcohol.

Answer 5

Of course, it sounds like he's really into you. But, are you letting him know how you're feeling? Don't cause him to be clueless. Help him out. Let him know you're "falling for him".......well, just a little bit anyway. Give him a 'sign'! Or, you could even take the direct approuch and, just simply talk to him about it. It's all up to YOU!

Answer 6

I think its 1 of 2 things...

1.) ur friend is right and he's gons to a deeper stage of liking you.

2.) He now knows you like him and has backed of a little (situations tend to go sometimes that when you like sum1 there not interested, then they like you and your not interested, or vice versa) This could be the case.

Either way, I hope you two get together - sounds like its about time!

-x-

Answer 7

there may be different reasons, but might be that he is not ready for serious relations and is bothered not to harm U now seeing that U are falling for him. anyway guessing will not help, the only way to understand the other person is to talk with him ... not easy sometimes.

Answer 8

i think 1st he wanted to come in ur life then he wanted to have ur friendship then ur support then ur love!


i think he loves u and its u who should talk to him about this matter and how u r feeling these days by his new reactions.


well i should not ask but had u had bedded with him? if no may be he wants it or may he wants to marry u and want to have a beautiful life with u and ur daughter.


he is asking about ur Ex is because he is conforming that weather u r still love him or not.


tell him what u feel for him and go ahead in life.

start a new chapter


good luck and good bye.

Answer 9

Only 1 answer to your Question :

Jackpot !

You've got a Jackpot !

I advice to move ahead with cool head & nerves !

Only few luckiest people get true Love in life and also recognise it & move ahead to capture it right in their arms
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Answer 10

You must take the situation into your own hands.The next time you have him alone tell him how you feel and kiss him.It sounds to me that he may not understand that you like him back and feels he's never gonna get the girl(you).Go for it girl and Let me know how it turns out.