When we go out i'm worryed that he is not happy and i wonder what i can do make our next date really fun
2006-12-15 01:56:50 · 16 answers · asked by chicken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't worry about that. It's not your job to make sure that he has a good time. You shouldn't be going out of your way to make him happy [all of the time]. If he's not happy with you, he wouldn't be with you.
Don't let your life revolve around one person.
2006-12-15 01:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to wonder "how to keep a boyfriend happy",
instead ask yourself are you happy in this relationship?. If it's a good relationship happiness will flow, you can not make it happen. Be yourself is my best advice, if your happy all else will follow.
2006-12-15 02:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so you want to make a man happy! well thats not that easy of a question. but sounds to be like your just a little insecure! and if there isn't a red flag flying around in your relationship where you can see he's unhappy then i think you are fine and if you try to hard it might put him off, and thats not something you would want to do. so my best advise to you is listen to what he says like if there is a football game he has been dying to go to then take the extra steps to get him those tickets and make it a surprise!!! they will see that you listen care and WANT TO MAKE THEM HAPPY!
2006-12-15 02:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by tluckie313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
i believe you're quite innocent...
just check out what diff things he likes and what his interests are...
but dont over do it...
otherwise he'll feel sick, trust me.
And maintain a distance too... it makes a difference.
Dont just sit on his lap for hours n hours...
and talk to him once in a while..
otherwise he'll feel you granted.
You may no mark this answer as your BEST but...
if you follow these commandments i assure your relation will work our if circumstances favoured !
Best of luck
2006-12-15 02:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by zubi k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you know what he likes...
Try some of these..
go dancing
hold hands and take a walk in the park
go to a museum together
snuggle up to him every now and then
2006-12-15 02:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by bakerjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us women have a problem in losing ourselves while loving someone else, enjoy yourself honey & please stop worrying, life is too short & if in creating joy for others we forget to enjoy ourselves ,then that means we will miss out on lifes lessons that are meant for us & thats not good.. Relax, live, love, grow, understand 7 realize that if he feels 4 you the way you feel 4 him then being in your company alone puts a smile in his heart even if it doesnt always show on his face.....best wishes....
2006-12-15 02:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well......
all i can say is, one way is that,
"DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS HIM OR MAKE HIM HAPPY (when not needed), COZ THIS WAY HE'LL REALLY BE PROUDY!
AND THEN HE'LL START THINKING THAT NO DOUBT THAT U LOVE HIM VERY MUCH THAT'S Y U ALWAYS TRY TO MAKE HIM HAPPY. THEN HE'LL NEVER GET ATTRACTED TOWARDS U, COZ HE KNOWS THAT U R ALWAYS THERE FOR HIM.
AND THIS WAY HE'LL GET ATTRACTED TO THE ONE'S WHO R NOT ATTRACTED TOWARDS HIM, TRUST ME THAT'S TRUE........!
I'M NOT ASKING U TO IGNORE HIM , OFCOURSE.
AND SECOND WAY IS THAT,
DON'T DO WHATEVER HE DOSEN'T LIKE (even in his absence).
AND IF U REALLY DO WHATEVER HE DOSEN'T LIKE, THEN DON'T PRETEND THAT U R NOT DOING THAT...........!
HOPE U'VE GOT WHAT I'M TRYING TO SAY.
ANYWAYS....
GOOD LUCK FOR UR LOVE LIFE.
2006-12-15 03:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by inab k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he makes you happy.
2006-12-15 02:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that you should not do to make him happy is to have sex with him..
This will only make you look cheap in his eyes.
He will then leave you anyway.
Just be yourself.. If he is not happy with that, drop him.
2006-12-15 02:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋