2006-12-15 01:56:19 · 12 answers · asked by LAB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make any contact with him, and give the different reasons when he wants to see you !!!
2006-12-15 02:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, there isn't a way to break up with someone without hurting them. Take the time to think things through and handle it with the upmost care and respect. If this person has not been a jerk to you then really make sure you aren't being crude to him. Be honest and direct. Don't sugar coat because that makes things worst when you finally say it. Let him know that you have been thinking about your life and where you want to go in it. Talk about your goals and aspirations and how you have to do what you have to do to achieve them. Try to be considerate of his feelings, but affirmative in your decision. There isn't an easy way to do this. You just have to do it. I hope it works out for you.
2006-12-15 02:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by YaYa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be as honest with him as you can. Try not to be too hurtful (you don't have to tell him its because he's ugly or too short or has bad teeth or something shallow like that) but don't give him a reason that makes him think that if he changes this or that you will take him back. Just tell him that your feelings for him have changed and you don't think the relationship is working out. He will be hurt, there's really no way around that. Just let him down as gently as possible and then don't contact him anymore.
2006-12-15 02:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's possible. But it is possible to minimize the hurt feelings. Just be honest, tell him you are not interested and don't have the feelings for him. You both deserve better.
Tell him you respect him and enjoyed your time together but you think it's time to move on. But whatever you do, please tell the truth. Let him know if there are reasons or if it's just an "I don't have feelings for you anymoe" or "i'm attracted to someone else" thing.
If there are things about him that bother you, it would be helpful for him to know, if he's ever to get in another relationship. Also, I think he deserves to know.
If it's just a "no feelings" kind of thing, it isn't anyone's fault, just the chemistry isnt' there.
Either way, he deserves to know.
Yes, he'll be hurt, but this is neccessary for both of you.
2006-12-15 02:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by kristin c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fill a bathtub with ice, jump in until you're solid, go out in the balcony or on the top of a building and jump off.
You may find that you are too stiff to move or jump so ask the future ex-boyfriend to be to give you the push.
You'll shatter to pieces but hey, his heart won't be broken.
2006-12-15 02:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by Derek K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is any way to avoid hurting him, but you are increasing the amount of pain he will endure inside by how long you wait to tell him. Although it may be one of the hardest things you will do so far, if the feelings of the two of you are not mutual, then it shouldn't be any longer.
2006-12-15 02:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no breaking up situtation that there nobody will getting hurt.did you heard that someone when they they breake up no one is getting hurt?
maybe if your boyfriend really don't love it sure he will not getting hurt if you two will brake up.
just tell him.be yourself and at list you did it for the better.if you not tell him it sure that this will getting bigger and bigger.
telling this will telling the truth that is over and you know that there is someone is better than you.tell about tohim and i know he will understand because he love you
2006-12-15 02:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down face to face, take his hand and say simply that this relationship is not working out and we need to move on. Then leave as quickly as possible. If he tries to dissuade you, just keep repeating that the relationship is not working out, it is not what you want, we both need to move on. Be kind, but firm.
2006-12-15 02:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's an impossibility, but if you really wanna break up with him and not hurt him, get one of your hot friends to **** him, he will get over you soon. I promise. Let your friends hook up with him if you don't want to hurt him.
2006-12-15 01:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by chrisj7682 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not unless your bf didn't have any feelings for you at all
ur bound to hurt him... even if it's just his ego
2006-12-15 02:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by sedatedeyes209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋