My fiance and I have been together for quite awhile. I am pregnant by him. We are staying with his mom and step-dad until we can get our own place. He has another kid by someone he hardly knows (it was a one night stand and she just so happen to get pregnant by him) I don't mind the kid, I accept that. But my fiance's mom invited Alex (his son) and his mom to spend the night last night, knowing that I had to go to school today and she would be all alone with my fiance. He doesn't want her around either, he can't stand her. He has explained this to his mom NUMEROUS times. So instead of staying at home this morning my fiance got up early and went and stayed at his aunt's until he had to go to work. Should he have to be booted out of the place where he stays because his mom has invited her over? Am I wrong for being upset? What would you do? please help.!. because now, I feel like never speaking to his mother again.
2006-12-15 01:49:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I completely understand! You have every right to be upset. why did the mom invite her over? Maybe you should talk to the mom and see whats going on. Is she doing this on purpose to make you upset? Sometimes these mom's mean well but they dont realize they are hurting you. I've been a situation were ,my fiances's mom talks to the "baby moma"on the phone all the time and laughs with her and everything while I'm sitting right there. But I talked to her about it, not around bf, just me and her and told her it hurts. and she appologized and didnt realize she had offended me. She stopped doing it. Sometimes they forget about the "drama" that we go through, cause were their kids.
2006-12-15 02:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Shampaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, that is his Mom's house and she can have whoever she wants over there, no matter what you and her son say! Secondly, if you all do not like the woman that is his son's mom, why not go through a bridging agency, so you never have to see her again? If that is not anoption for you, may I suggest that you get your own place and have your own rules? There are a lot of goverment programs, such as emergency assistance that will help you with deposits and rent as well! Try those, because you can not just dictate who can and can not stay at someone else's home. As far as not wanting to speak to her again, that is up to you. If you think that she is tring to hook that girl up with her son, because she does not like you, maybe I would try as quickly as I could to get out of her house and never speak to her again. But if she is just trying to be nice, and trying to lolve everyone, even in spite of what you all think, then I would voice my opinion and see if she changes, but I would think about the baby that you are carrying as well, it will want to see it's grandmother, and she will want to see the baby too. In the end it is your choice, but that is what I think about it!
2006-12-15 10:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by fatiima 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first i would move out because she is not a very nice mom in law, she could have an out look of that child was here first but she didnt have to invite the mother also. I would leave and tell her not to talk to you again
2006-12-15 11:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋