My mom told me to always be a lady and never use profanaties, my boyfriend has been trying real hard to get me to come out of my shell and talk dirty, i can't do it, I find it hard to use swear words, i would really like to try 4 him because i love him and want to do anything to make him happy. Help.
2006-12-15 01:49:24 · 28 answers · asked by vee. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie gosh you remind me of me!!
Just told him what you want him to do to you, you may find it easier at the start to nickname parts of you!!
good luck
2006-12-15 02:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This narration I found somewhere but as its so very relevant I add it here for all to enjoy Love your question! But just go with the flow and just fantasize about being in different clothes and costumes, or be naked somewhere pretend in the woods near a castle. There are plenty of role playing you can do too. Find some little cars or dolls for doll houses and have them farm the land on your body parts, your boobs could be mountains and your pubic hairs the forest and you can have little creatures and people of the villages talking dirty to eachother. Just a weird idea, and good luck to you. Have fun.You'll find something that works.
2014-11-20 23:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by *^JNL^* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read about 17 answers to this question,and I think that most are steering you in the wrong way.While it's true you do not have to use profanity to "talk dirty" my question is why should you have to if you do not feel comfortable with it?I don't think a man should ask a woman to do anything she isn't comfortable with. You don't say how long you have been dating,but,sounds like maybe he should give a little also.Good luck.
2006-12-15 02:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Vee, the main thing to remember here is that you don't need to swear in order for you to be able to talk dirty.
Try concentrating on supplying a description of what you want him to do, what you are feeling when he is paying attention to you or vice versa.
Most people find that the description of the physical act whilst it is happening to be enough to enhance sexual activity. You may feel that you sound silly but trust me, he will be more interested in knowing that it feels good rather than listening to your exact words.
2006-12-15 01:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talking dirty without being vulgar. Isn't that one of those oxymoron things??? LOL Tell him the things that excite you. IE: lick my @#$%&, @#$% me hard, ect....
Being sexual and being vulgar are two different things.
%$@# you $%&* for brains, is a lot different than: lick my p@$$y till I *** then F&%# me hard. Bed a lady in the living room and a dirty **** in the bedroom.
2006-12-15 02:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You willing to do anything to make him happy. It does not appear the reverse is true.
However. So don't use profanity. Talking dirty isn't necessarily about profanity. It's about telling him what your feeling or telling him what you want him to do to you. Express the emotion. Express the passion. Simple example "I want you inside me right now." "The way you feel makes me wet." Whatever. Make it fun "Does Mr Johnson want to come inside and wrestle." You can talk dirty and still be true to yourself.
2006-12-15 01:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first language doesn't have dirty words.
I somewhat translate in my head so I tend to use the not dirty words.
I found this difficult with my ex wife who liked it.
It is all in the phrasing and tease.
People will think you are very dirty with no cussing.
So you like it hard or fast?
You are soooo big.
Go all night baby.. all night...
Flash snuggle and spread em.
Get the Idea?
2006-12-15 01:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont bother , or u have it or u dont .
u cant learn things like this . its coming naturally with no pressure and no learning . just think how it would be if we give u words and sentences here and u would study them and on the big moment u would sound like a child telling his poem at school , naaahhhh leave it and talk with him about .
2006-12-15 03:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one is behind the closed doors of a bedroom but you two. Let it rip. Say every curse word you never have but always wanted to. Instead of something like make love to me. Say F**K me. Mom won't know.
2006-12-15 01:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Floss 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You could practice on those telephone sex chat lines. Sometimes it's easier to talk to a stranger and lose your inhibitions that way...
2006-12-15 01:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋