I mean if we don't have that as ultimate intention, its better not to start at all as I felt we should be more responsible to handle the emotions a relationship that brought about.
agreed?
2006-12-15 01:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm im not sure what you're asking but like dating with marriage in mind to me is a good idea, because if you're not basically your planning on at one time or another breaking up. I think it gives you more of a goal when ur in the relationship, you don't need to express it like on the first date or something "im dating you with hopes of marriage" but like you can show it. In my opinion thats why so many people out here are pregnant and having kids with no real father to help them, and also why so many young people are emotionally torn up. soooo to date with marriage in mind is a good idea to me, its a protection , and i as a girl like when ppl do that it makes u feel spefial ^^
2006-12-15 01:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that is something that should definitely be discussed. But I seriously don't know of any girls who tell a guy on the first date that they want to marry them. That is kind of silly. But if you've been in a relationship for awhile and can't see yourself with her and she wants the need result to be marriage..GET OUT. You will only break her heart.
2006-12-15 01:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell them you don't want to think about marriage for a long time and you are at the present looking for someone to do things with. I'm in a spot now because i didn't it clear that i was looking for a friend she keeps bringing up little hints obout marriage and i don't know what to do.
2006-12-15 01:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by robert c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but how do you know that it wont end in marriage???
just because a lady wants to get married does not mean you shun her --- get to know her --- she may be the love of your life
2006-12-15 01:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree if that is what she has in mind and you don't you should let her know how you feel because in the long run it is gonna be a problem
2006-12-15 01:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u can still have a fling untill ya got a ring
2006-12-15 01:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it silly for a guy to be asking questions like that on yahoo answers...yeah it is..
2006-12-15 01:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd do it in a second!!!
2006-12-15 01:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its normal
2006-12-15 01:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by tyler d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋