so i like this guy and everyone else thinks he likes me too and im sick of waiting....i met him last year but we hardly ever talked...then we have a class together this semester which is when i realized i liked him....we also have a class together next semester and i want to ask him out but last year i asked this other guy out and he hasnt talked to me since and i dont want the same thing to happen to me and this guy because we are pretty good friends and we have a class together next semester.(last year everyone thought that this guy liked me and so i asked him out and nothing good came out of that, i dont want the same thing to happen with me and this other guy) what do i need to do...im oh so very confused.
ps. i am not the most gorgeous girl in the class if you know what i mean.
2006-12-15 01:43:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't do anything, you'll never get anything. If you sit around waiting, someone else is going to snatch him up.
If he does the immature "I'm not talking to you again ever" thing after you admit your feelings to him, then why would you even want someone like that as a friend? People like that are just stupid and not worth our time.
2006-12-15 01:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him. Try to somehow work a "date" into your daily conversation. Try saying something like, my friend and I had tickets to see a movie, and now she cant go, so since I have an extra ticket, would you like to go. Just try to indirectly ask him out. Don't make it so obvious that you like him. Men hate to be smothered or even feeling close to it. Being the prettiest girl in the class has nothing to do with it. If he likes you, then looks shouldnt matter. He should like you for who you are, not what you look like.
2006-12-15 01:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Angelica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the risk. If you risk nothing you have nothing. Some guys are shy and afraid to ask a girl out so take the initiative. You might be pleasantly surprised!
2006-12-15 01:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by Being Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you do is invite this guy to coffee and sit him down and tell him how you feel but also inform him that if he doesn't feel the same way that you would rather just be his friend than nothing at all.It takes maturity to have this work.Rejection sucks but you have to know that if it doesn't work with this one then it will with the next.good luck and let me know how it turns out.
2006-12-15 02:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him time flirt a little and maybe it will all pan out. Make him want u flirt with other guys. Ignore him and he'll realize that he isn't as happy w/ out u.
2006-12-15 01:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Snickers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. don't let it sit there with nothing happening. and if you're not drop dead gorgeous, don't sweat it. ask him out like you've never done before! Good luck.
2006-12-15 01:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by L-dog =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe hes waiting for you to talk to him just become friends with him the closer you all become the better you're relation ship will be if you get together
2006-12-15 01:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by mizz.1 love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you said the same thing over and over and over again I got it the first time ask him out there is nothing wrong with that.
2006-12-15 01:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by fluttergirl2004 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date both.
2006-12-15 01:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much thinking. Not enough doing.
2006-12-15 01:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋