well i guess i will just ask the whole story... it all start yesterday when she got home from school she told me that she would call me, well she didnt so i called her and she answered and said that she was busy because her and her friend was fighting. so i talked to her for awhile then i had to go, and then later i called back and talked to her more, but that night around 10 pm she got home, but i found out she dropped her friend alicia off at 9 pm, and i also was informed that she was with one of her guy friends from right after school(3:30) tell 10, she feels really bad about it and cryed and what not, but what should i do, should i still be angry at her, should we break up, or what, i dont know what to do, i told her if she ever lied to me like that or did it again that its over, but im at a lost now with the situation, because im just so mad, i dont know if its at her or the guy or what...someone please help me and let me know what you think i should do???
2006-12-15 01:33:02 · 7 answers · asked by andrew_harris16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you already told her before that if she lied to you it was over, and now she has lied to you, and you don't break up with her, you will be a laughing stock. She will know that she can do whatever she wants, she will never respect you (she doesn't respect you now) all her friends will be laughing about you behind your back, not to mention what the other guy who is sleeping with her will be telling everybody in school.
2006-12-15 01:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by white.devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the two of you should deffinately sit down and talk. I have learned from experience ( a 2 year relationship) that fighting will only make things worse. Ask her what happened that night. Why did she go out with him that night and not tell you. Like I said, fighting is not the answer. If you really care for her, then you should talk to her. Maybe she does want to see someone else, maybe not. Just talk to her. It is definately okay to be angry. That is just another one of the phases. Just don't solely take it out on her. And remember, everyone messes up at least once in their lifetime. Maybe this was her once. She might not know what hse wants.
2006-12-15 09:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by Angelica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cried it could be because she feels guilty, did she say she did anything with the guy? Either way she lied to you about it and you should talk with her and find out why. If it was no big deal she should have just told you she would be hanging out with one of her guy friends. So if I were you I would be suspicious.
2006-12-15 09:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! i feel really bad for you. lying is really bad in a realationship. and why does she feel she needs to lie to you. i think you have the right to be mad at her because its not like you lied to her or anything. i think you should stick to your word. i mean a man is no good without his word.RIGHT? i wish you the best of luck. Keep me updated. brittneyfoote@yahoo.com
2006-12-15 09:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by ~~~~brit~~~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were me then i would definately be mad b/c if she has time for her guy friends and her girlfriends then she needs to make time for you, if this guy friend indeed only a friend? i would make sure of that before i would do anything else!!!
2006-12-15 09:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by what 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG if I were her I'd dump you I'd be damned if my dude was checking up on me like you do her jeez get a life.
2006-12-15 09:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by fluttergirl2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should live and forgive she is sorry
2006-12-15 09:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by tyler d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋