i have a friend who wants to sleep with me. Which is really weird because we dated along time ago and we never even kiss. he really wants to but i told him i dont want to but he keeps bringing it up. What do i do?
2006-12-15 01:27:04 · 20 answers · asked by ~~~~brit~~~~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
next time tell him firmly that its not gonna happen and that your friendship means too much to you to screw it up by sleeping wit him.
2006-12-15 01:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
!!!!!!! You are smart for even asking for help !!!!!!!!!
Once you have had sex with someone, especially if you are pressured into doing it, you give up all forms of morality and self respect.
You have to take charge of your life. If you don't, someone else will.
Sex is not something to be taken lightly. It lowers your self respect and self esteem, if it's with the wrong person, and for the wrong reasons. Others also have a lowered respect for you.
If you have a goal in life, anything you do when you are young can, and possibly will affect that.
You just told everyone on this site that you have morals by asking for help, kudos to you for that.
You already know what you need to do, now it's time to take charge of 'you', and don't let anyone else mess that up for you.
You are important, and the wrong influences will take that away from you.
Do what you want to do, not what others say you have to do.
Before making a final discussion, ask yourself this question: "Am I someone I can be 'proud' of?"
2006-12-15 10:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by freakyforjesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with what you feel in your heart. If you think that you two should have sex then go ahead. I feel that he is rushing things. If you two haven't even kissed, I feel that you should definately not be having sex. You should ask him what he wants out of the relationship. Unfortunately, most men only want sex, and when they get it, they move on. I dated my ex for 2 years, and I think that that was the case with him, so he left me. But as i said. Go with whats in your heart. If you really feel that you love him or care a lot for him, then I guess just sleep with him. Don't do it because he wants you too. Do it because you love him, and you both want to. Just don't let him force you into something that you are uncomfortable with.
2006-12-15 09:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Angelica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have told him that you dont want to sleep with him, and he wont accept that as an answer, you need to stop your friendship!!! Anyone who doesnt respect you in that way, is not really a friend at all!!
2006-12-15 09:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look almost 80% guys want that
and if u dont want then he should not even think of it
love is not only this things
its about caring and such feelings come grom heart it cant
be forced at all
look if yr love is true and the guy loves u truelly then
he will understand
rest is up to u
2006-12-15 09:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Spicy Ketchup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your freind really wants you something special.
but you know the best thing to do is talk about this and the limitation and the satus of your relationship if only a friend or a love ones.
You know that your friend is really weirds.i may think that you and him are more than a friends if you will not wrote here that you and him is only a friend i will do not know if he is your friend or not?
2006-12-15 09:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no means NO!! He is not much of a friend if he keeps pushing the issue and does not respect your answer.
2006-12-15 09:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get over himself and to drop it if he wants to keep you as a friend
2006-12-15 09:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by itza_mea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to then you don't have to do anything unless you acutally like him then tell him your not just going to sleep with him for the sake of it. It's your body not his it is up to you waht you do.........don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.
2006-12-15 09:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it.you dont know if you want to marry him or not.be on your decision and dont let him to do it.you dont know the boys well.they want to reach their desires and after that leave the gilr.
if he really loves u so he should marry u if u want.
you should keep your own virtue.good luck
2006-12-15 09:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by Elham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋