im 35.... what do young women REALY think about older men? if you "go" with them is it because you like older men? because you feel sorry for them? or its just how you are, so you enjoy the sex?
2006-12-15 01:16:31 · 20 answers · asked by meandthee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think my older guy is the best thing since sliced bread
Girls always tend to go with older men, but age isn't really an issue to me. I would never go out with a guy because I felt sorry for them, young or old.
And yes the sex is great, best I've ever had!!
2006-12-15 03:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Budapest1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't comment really I am 24 and the oldest person I have been with was 3 years older.
I am not against older men would prob not go older than say 10 - 15 years than me.
I would hope that the reason girls go for older men is that they would be more reliable than younger men and that which is the most important they love them!
It could also be you are more experienced !! ha ha
2006-12-15 01:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some older guys, are young at heart and thats what probably attracts younger ladies to them But sooner or later it gets a bit tedious and boring cos at the end of the day, personally, i would wanna be be with someone that experiences new things and life issues. I wouldnt be too thrilled if that person was like: O ya, that happened to me like 5/10 years ago!
But i guess thats just me.
Just use Catehrine Zeta & Michael Douglas, things are going quite well!
2006-12-15 01:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is sexy and has a good personality and you fancy them then you 'go' with that guy for that reason only, regardless of age.Tha's my view anyway.
Some girls go after older guys for the money but that is a very shallow way to be and I don't think a realationship could ever last on money alone!
As for feeling sorry for a guy I cant see many girls doing that to be honest.
I am 25, by the way. (Oh, If the guy is fit and has money, well I supose that's a bonus. Works boths ways dosent it?)
2006-12-15 01:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by cutebeantree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been with an older man but its something I would definitley consider. Mainly because they are (generally speaking) much more mature and settled in ther lives. All that is very appealing when you've got a 22 year old boyfriend who's idea of a good time is getting as drunk as possible!
2006-12-15 01:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 21 and i prefer older men as they have more experience. i would never date some1 cos i felt sorry for them I'm not a charity! the sex can be good to. it helps they have done all the mad things already an are not as likely to run off with the next bit of skirt that comes by.
2006-12-15 01:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually older men are more confident. They are more likely to want a relationship than a quick s**g and are willing to put a bit of time and effort into the relationship. They have a better idea of how a woman would like to be treated. And usually more experienced in the bedroom.
2006-12-15 01:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Scottish Girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am 24 and married to a man who is 37. I personally went out with him because he was a lot more mature than the guys my age. He has been through so many more life experiences than those my age. The sex is better because he's had a lot more experience, and he is very sweet and loving. He's been in several relationships before we got together and he knows how to be comfortable in a relationship.
2006-12-15 01:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well personally i believe age does not matter im married to a man 6 years older than me not because of the sex not because i feel sorry for him but because i appreciate his matureness and because we share intrests, when i was born my dad was 53 years old he was 22 years older than my mother and i learnt alot of things from him like the fact that beauty is found within it doesn't matter how beautiful a person is or how old they are if they have an ugly demeanor or personality then beauty is nothing
i am 23 but i have learn't this much
2006-12-15 01:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever considered it might be because the person likes you? "older" men seem to be more mature though too so thats always an appealing factor.
My partner is 3 years older than me and thats just about right for me.
2006-12-15 01:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋