I always end up either having girlfriends that we dont stay much together either we can be together for a single month but it doesnt last for a year I now want to have a girl that I should stay with for the rest of my life please give mi a soung a dvice on how to make the right choice so that i can choose someone who really loves me
2006-12-15 01:13:37 · 13 answers · asked by Peter O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way of knowing. That is the beauty of the whole thing. You get to try a lot of different things, some bad, some good, and eventually, you will just stumble across the right person for you. Until then, don't 'fall in love' with every girl you meet. Sex does not mean love. Two dates do not mean love. Enjoy a relationship for what it is, not what you want it to be. I know, I didn't end up with the right one until well into my thirties. She is well worth the wait, but until that time, I met many women, and regret none of it.
Long Live Jambi
2006-12-15 01:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot! You should take a lot of time and a lot of efforts with someone as a friend before you develope closer ties. You need to discover yourself and ce if there are compatibilities and complementarities to become boyfriend/girlfriends. Only then can you confidentally say that you are about to make the right choice of your girlfiend. In short, the problem is more likely to be with YOU, than 2b with the other person. Ask yourself, first, what do you expect from the other person and then, what can the other person, possibly expect from you? Can you give it to her? Can she possibly give it to you? If the answers to both questions are possitive, then go for it. Its the right choice for both of you and not only for YOU!
2006-12-15 01:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know what it is YOU are looking for in a partner. What aspects do you like? Value? I don't mean her appearance, I'm talking about her character, her personality. And you need to assess your own attributes....is there something about your own personality that you don't like? If there is, then you need to work on changing it because if you are able to see it, then chances are your prospective mate can see it too and this might be what prevents you from staying in a long-term relationship. Only YOU can make the right choice for who you choose as your girlfriend, no one can make that choice for you. And you might want to ask yourself this question, "Am I trying too hard to find someone?" I hope this helps you in some small way....good luck in your search.
2006-12-15 01:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by AngelEyes In SF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there, I promise you 1 thing, you are most definately NOT the only one going through this! I also feel like that sometimes, where its as if all the relationships i've been in are absolutely meaningless!!! But i've come to the conclusion: We ALL must go through all of this to be prepared for that 1 special one that (hopefully) comes our way!
All the best!
*I'll hold thumbs 4 me, you and the millions out there just like us!
2006-12-15 01:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After about 100 or so you'll start to figure out what you really want out of a woman. Then you can start looking for the right one.
2006-12-15 01:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by albion53151 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choosing a girlfriend is a process, you know why because you have to know the person right in front of you or if he/she is not around.
beside for me the right way to choose the right person to be at end of my life in this world is the person that change my life into a better person and that my presence makes him/her happier in spite of many struggles that we are facing in this moment.
thanks to you!
we can be near/close to many persons but we can only choose
one to be our spouse.
okay!
have a nice day
2006-12-15 01:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes you have to work your way through all of the ones that wont work to find the one that will. You'll know when you find that person though. Best of Luck :)
2006-12-15 01:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by buggs8498 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to your mother and let them talk! Mom's can understand her would be 'daughter-in-law' much better tahn you!
2006-12-15 01:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the right one comes along you will know
2006-12-15 01:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont! it's a straight gumble.
2006-12-15 01:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋