how long does it take for your heart to stop hurting after a breakup because it just was not going to work,and how long until you accept just being friends,
2006-12-15 01:03:16 · 18 answers · asked by flavia d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi it depends on the relationship and the length of time that you have been involved in it. a breakup takes time to get over you just cannot get up and say fine easier said than done, deal with the situation and it also helps to talk to someone about this to get it off your chest, and if you are going to be friends then accept that for the simple fact would you rather keep a friend instead of not having them at all i wish you luck ok
2006-12-15 01:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by YOLANDA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much u loved the person and how long u went out if it was a short relationship u probably wernt in love even if u thought u were but if u truly were in love it can take a long time, just try to not think about them chase after a few ppl for physical attraction only dont look for another relationship yet but just drown ur sorrows in another person even it is a playa if u get ur mind off them the heart break will go away sooner and u will forget then u can move on to a new serious relationship =)
2006-12-15 09:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes awhile especially if you've been together a long time. And if you truly loved each other but it just wouldn't work to be friends will take a awhile too. Because even if you talk to each other the feelings and time y'all spent together are going to be there and it's still gonna be hard to just be friends. Only your heart can tell when you can just be friends because that's just not a easy thing to do once you've been in love with someone. Good Luck!
2006-12-15 09:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long time. Actually, I've never really broken up with a guy. I used to like a guy since I was in Grade 9. This guy seemed to have everything. Smart, witty, cute - but not so much of a great looking guy. I admired him for years and wished that, in someway, we could be together. That never happened. After about 7 years - since grade 9 I understood that. I was, of course, heartbroken. I actually waited for this boy - that's why I never entertained guys into my life. Anyway, that's the past. I've moved on!
2006-12-15 09:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Twojuly82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I split up with y ex 2 n a half years ago , things got easier after about a year n a half but i never stopped hurting , we didnt speak for all this time but the other day i bumped into him and we had a chat , the first half hour or so hurt like hell but after that i seen the arrogance in him again (which was the reason i left him ) n realised i done the right thing , still not a day goes by without me thinking of him at least once . but i dont suppose it hurts anymore . you may never stop hurting , or you may stop hurting very quikly who knows , but theres one thing for sure with in time it gets easier .i wish you well , x
2006-12-15 09:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every ones heart heals at different times, but every day that passes the pain lessons a little more. Sometimes you can be friends and sometimes you can't that's another thing about your good old hearts you just never know exactly. Good luck to you and Happy Holidays.
2006-12-15 09:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its purely on you, how long you take to come out of it. The best way way to come out of it , is to analyze the reasons why this has happened, and you will find that you were not knowing him/her completely, your relation was not transparent, something or the other was kept hidden either of the side.
Start you new life immediately, with all these corrections.
and hurting is over.
2006-12-15 09:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Rakesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's so hard to get over someone....for your heart to stop hurting and for the ache for that person to go away.....
I fell for someone....we remain friends to this day....he knows how I feel about him...he will only be my friend.
It's not easy either, but I'd rather have him for my laugh buddy than to not have him in my llife at all. I can't see my life without him now.
I just can't have him for a male/female relationship....and believe me it's a toughy...
I adore him so.....yet I honor his life.....and yes he has a wife!!
take the time to work it out.....if you can talk with this friend, talk let the feelings out...you have to work to acceptance....
good luck and be well.....
I share your pain....I feel your pain....
2006-12-15 09:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long depends on you and only you. How long it takes you to get out there an do whatever it takes to get your mind back on track and moving FORWARD. A little effort everyday. You'll make it.
2006-12-15 09:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no time to set ....
as for beeing friends , depends ... if the feelings were low to normal u will become friends with time , if the feelings were high , well , i could never be friends !
but i wish that things will work out for u !
2006-12-15 10:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋