Please give any ideas you have!!!
2006-12-15 00:55:07 · 26 answers · asked by Nessa<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make someone fall in love with u, it's a chemistry thing that just happens with time, or doesn't happen at all in some cases. I will tell u that men don't fall in love through sex thats for sure. Sex for men is a physical need not emotional as it is with women. For a man to fall in love he has to love u as a person........your personality, how u make him feel outside of the bedroom. Unfortunately if u only get attention from him inside the bedroom and their doesn't seem to be a connection other than that, then this guy may not be the one for u.
2006-12-15 01:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone fall in love, he has already told you he is not intrestred in a realtionship with you. He just wants to have sex with you. Men dont fall in love with the botty, it takes more than just sex. So, you can either be his piece of meat and be used as a toliet or move on and find someone who thinks you are relationship material. Personally, I think you need to move on and save what you have left of your self esteem. You should be very offended by his comments. If he liked and respected you he never would have said such a thing to you. So move on and forget it before you get your feelings hurt. You will not get better, until you realize you deserve better. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-15 01:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the previous answer. You can't make anyone fall in love with you, if all they want is sex. Give up on asking the question 100 times because the answer will never change.
2006-12-15 00:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by bellslady65 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh you cant!!! You can try, but his priority is sex!! And, loving him will be damaging to your self worth. Unfortunately, even trying to rationalize "just sex" is hard. Because he inevitably get emotionally involved, and then we get hurt. You deserve better than that!! You have to believe it. Tell him you want more, maybe he doesnt know. And, be his friend. Show him what a caring person you are, and how well you would take care of him should he chose to be with you. But, try not to go into this thinking that having sex with him, and being with him like that will lead to him falling in love with you!! Show him your best!! And, that comes with believing in yourself, being strong and knowing what you want!
2006-12-15 00:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone fall in love with you.
If you are with a man that just wants sex from you, you already know that he is not interested in you for more than your body. You need to look for a man that loves you for who you are and not just your body.
Take care,
Troy
2006-12-15 01:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 gurl ,why would u want a man that only wanted sex from u? that means he has no respect for u what so eva, but hey i say umm,,, just make the sex real good he'll keep comin bac and probably eventually fall in love,{or just lable u as a whore} but like i said bad idea to even want that.
2006-12-15 00:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by Video Phone 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he just wants sex there is only a slim chance he will ever want to fall in love with you... maybe if you give him a little at first then start talking and maybe going to the movies or out to eat to try to get him to try to fall for you just dont show all of you emotions to fast if you want him to fall for you you must not try to show him to early that you want him to comit to soon he will just pull out(parden the wording) and never talk to you again
2006-12-15 01:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by dr neal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not make a man fall in love with you.......if he is having sex with you when he wants to.....what else do he need.....he really do not care about you......the question is "Do you care about you?"
2006-12-15 00:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by ELDER 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem like that's gonna happen. He might just want that one thing ever from you. Does he take you out? Does he spend more that "sweat time" with you? You're not gonna make him fall in love with you.
2006-12-15 01:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by mezhenari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what all he likes & then you perfect it 100% you turn him out!! you ride him better than he's been rode & dont stop & dont let him stop (wear him out), you give him oral with the best of ya' ability & enjoy it, it cant be good to the reciever if the conductor doesnt enjoy what pleasure they are giving, you do positions on him they he cant get anywhere else b/c they came from the very existence of your imagination, find out everything he is into, not just sex "everything" be all to him that he needs, listen totally, open your arms fully & assure him that you are there & will continue to be there, spend time with him (as a friend/a great friend) find out his favorite meals & prepare them, his favorite hobbies & pet peeves & be there to participate...have fun with it, dont let it be an obsession, let it become a part of you & dont seem forced , be relaxed..good luck...
2006-12-15 01:04:02 · answer #10 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋