i'd made so many plans but it means nothin to them im feelin so low they do things for themselves but never for me..help me to handle this terrible situtaion am loosing control and feeling so bad as never before any of my birthday's!!!
2006-12-15 00:50:46 · 27 answers · asked by so_sexy_tani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hey, HAPPY B'DAY TO YOU. Don't be dis-hearted, they might be planning a surprise for you. Parents can't forget to celebrate this type of events. Unfortunately if so, they might be under tremendous stress of something else, which they could not share with anyone.
take it easy, try to find their stress. If so, just relax, find a solution for them and enjoy with your nears & dears.
2006-12-15 16:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sigma Bio-Medical S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are experiencing some anxioty about growing up! Being "of legal age", an adult! You are not alone, lots of people gp through this! Take a deep breath, and just take each day as it comes. You will be ok.
You turning 18 is a big deal for them too. You are not their little girl anymore. They are probably taking it hard. I know that doesn't make you feel better, but maybe you all can sit down tonight and talk about it.
But look on the bright side - they could be planning a surprise party or something like that for you!
Hope you have a very Happy Birthday!
2006-12-15 01:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just a little spoiled to me . Sorry , but most of us ( me too) that have birthdays around the Holidays get the fat end of a stick. Not much time left for parents to plan extra parties and buy just another gift . The worst is when you get a Christmas gift and they say : " oh yes, this is for Birthday and Christmas too " ,LOL
So now you are an adult. Choose your friends wisely and don't grab at just anybodies so-called friendship . Invite your own friends and celebrate the occasion . And work hard so you can pay for it too. It comes with the territory .
Anyway, have a good one and many happy healthy returns .
2006-12-15 01:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, too, felt the same way when I turned 18. My mom took me out to dinner and when we got home there was a check made out to me from my older sister for $18. No card, no phone call, no nothing but the check. I tore it up in front of my mom. I was so hurt. I called my sister and told her I would rather her spend an hour with me taking me to McDonalds for supper and spending $5 on me then giving me a check like that. I've taken what hurt me most as a child/young adult and used it to give my kids a great life. Don't carry this pain around with you forever, but don't ever forget it, either. Use this to make a change in someones life. When your friends turn 18 treat them to what you wish your parents would have done for you. Good luck to you.
2006-12-15 02:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Happy 18!
Have a great day, year and an equally great life ahead.
I am sure once you start celebrating your life with great enthusiasm, your parents or anybody else wouldn't be able to help it but join in.
Make lot of noise as you celebrate your birth, your life and your future with lot of joy, never mind if they didn't remember it this time, know that they love you never the less, they are your parenst afterall, you are big enough to stop bothering about their approval of your joy and jubiliations.
Enjoy and take care of your self.
2006-12-16 23:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it to heart because they may be planning to surprise you with something. Or because they know that you have made so many plans maybe they will give you something the following day. I understand that you feel hurt as its going to be your special day, but wait and see.
If it so happens that they don't do anything for your birthday at all, they maybe you should sit them down and let them know that they have hurt your feelings and right now you are feeling unloved
2006-12-15 01:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are acting like this in order to surprise you. If not well then be glad you will be an age where you can get together with friends and celebrate with them. Sometimes people are so wrapped up in themselves they are selfish. If this is your case then surround yourself with good friends and they will be your family during times like this. Happy Birthday honey, I hope you will be pleasantly surprised...
2006-12-15 00:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels when their is a lack of support and understanding from people you love, but you must learn that turning 18 is a big thing to any parent too.In order to have yourself, and your parents happy you should compromise with them.Everything works on give a little and get a little, try it.It just might wok.
2006-12-15 00:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May b they r just playing prank on u n making plans 4 ur surprise party. So just relax. N in advance Happy B'Day.
2006-12-16 01:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they are able to rarely take you out of the college.you may communicate with the college to your protection.and likewise you may convince your father by using your mom if u do no longer wanna communicate wid him.he will for particular look after your hobbies in case you have already made this a ways ,inspite of each little thing he's father in any case.
2016-10-05 08:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by rotanelli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋