My brother is good looking while I'm ugly but I'm way more smarter than him(I study dentistry,he studies computer science but he's bad at it)but that didn't matter,I mean we were like best friend until last year he started to go out and party a lot and one day we had a big fight and I told him that I'll be rich while he's not then he said that he can marry a hot chick while I can't cuz I'm so damn ugly,that really pissed me off and made me angry and now we are always fighting about this so I decided to focus on my studies and become a great dentist,rich,big house and marry a hot wife just to show him that I'm better.
I honestly don't think that I'll be happy with a hot wife who likes my money but at the same time I can't lose to him
2006-12-15 00:21:16 · 11 answers · asked by James 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude,.. screw him,....
you'll get older,.. he'll continue to be immature,... eventually,... women will see thtough his bullshit,.. and someday,.. your going to latch onto a woman who is attracted to you for who you are and how you treat her,.... (being good in the sack will help you too;) )
so when you have a happy stable relationship someday,.. you can tell your bro to kiss your ***.
:)
2006-12-15 00:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as an ugly person! You go forward in your life and stop having these competitions with your brother, for in the end, only the both of you will be hurt and destroy any good relationship you could have. If he wants to party a lot and waste his life, that is his choice. You will find a "hot chick" when the time is right, because SHE will find YOU and will love you for yourself, not your money. If all she wants is your riches, she's not worth one minute of your time (or the bankruptcy you'll end up in). If riches, a big house, and a hot wife are all you have for goals beyond your job, that is sad, indeed. Compete with yourself to make YOU a better person and let your brother make his own mistakes--don't follow him down that rabbit hole, because you'll lose all sense of yourself if you do. Good luck!
2006-12-15 08:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys like 12 years old? It's hard to imagine to grown-up guys in a fight like that. To answer your question who cares who has the hottest wife. All that really matters is you being happy. Finish school get your job rolling and find a great gal who you can love and have a family with.
2006-12-15 08:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you've already answered your own question.
Arguement is a trivial matter. You have a brother, you should respect him, and dont too emotional with him~ ( this alwys happens ) . But at the same time, you really ought to teach him in a better way, unless he is considered.
For me, dont too introvert. But do not too extrovert. I was looking to your story so I could say that you are trying to be as great or as pompous as your brother. You just have to give good advice, pick a suitable time and place, explain the effects..etc.
Good in luck!
2006-12-15 08:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to him about it, never ever risk family over any thing, family will always be there no matter what, I would sit down and tell hiim you want to be included in things, maybe he'll start taking you to parties with him. But its never good to rub anything in anyones face, you are both in the wrong. Make up your brothers, all relatives have there arguments, especially sybolings.
2006-12-15 08:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by *STAR* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not worry about him get someone who loves you for you and you love her it doesnt matter about him because in the end your happiness is what matters and just cuz ur ugly doesnt mean as u call it a hot girl wont like you some of them like a man for more than just there looks or money they go deeper than that
2006-12-15 08:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by ashley p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to kiss and make up
you are BROTHERS stop trying to show each other up
you are both unique and will have different lives
you will have money and a decently pretty wife who loves you
he will be poor with a hot wife who will probly cheat on him
2006-12-15 08:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you competing? He's your brother, your blood , your family. It makes you sound as shallow as he is when you rise to his insults. If you are really THAT smart, you'd sit there quietly, reach your goals, and hope your brother finds happiness. Who cares who looks like what - you're both being petty. Grow up.
2006-12-15 08:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing and hurting each other.
U are to intelligent for that !!! ( even Ur brother don't understand this yet)
Just do what U want to do with Ur life!!
2006-12-15 09:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by awg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are ugly and she is hot, she is probably after ur money. get rid of her before u go bankrupt. let ur brother call u that. it shouldnt matter about the looks.
2006-12-15 08:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by Cavegirl948 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋