2006-12-15 00:15:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My marraige ended due to the repeated beatings to my face and his cheating with a co-worker of his.
You can't "make them love you", either they do or they don't.
2006-12-15 00:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a balancing act, sometimes we have to compromise, in order for things to work out. What are you doing or what are you not doing to cause your husband to look at you as if he doesn't love you? Do you love yourself? There are different reasons why marriages break up. Talk to him, maybe marriage counseling is an option. You can't make someone love you either they love you or they don't
2006-12-15 00:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing to remember is that before you start looking for Mr. Right first you must become Mrs. Right. Once you've done that Mr. Right will find you. You can't make someone love you. However, your actions can help decide if they are going to love you or hate you in the end. Be the person that you would want to be with. There will always be battles in marriages. You won't always agree. Choose your battles wisely. Don't nit pick about every small detail. No one wants to live like that. If you know that he has pet peeves try to accomodate them. don't rush into marriage. Find someone that you truly love, trust, and want to be with.
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2016-02-11 09:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married life isn't just about marriage breakdown - although sometimes it seems that way.
Many things break a marriage - working hours, lack of common interests, no sex etc.
Your husband should already "love" you - just make sure both of you try and work hard to make sure you are both happy and you both get what you want, both as individuals and as a couple.
2006-12-15 20:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must apologize for some of the vulgar answers you have received so far....
Basically talk to him , is there an issue ? unless you know what it is then you cant both work together at putting it right.
Marriage is a two way thing , just like love be honest and open to what the problems are and work together to put them right.
Spend time chatting time chatting to each other and make this christmas one to remember for all the right reasons.
Good Luck and wishing you a happy festive season.
2006-12-15 00:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by Byte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number 1 and 2 causes for divorce are money and children. So these are things you may want to discuss prior to marriage to know where each other stand.
Also men love a freak in the bedroom and a woman in the streets. So keep him happy and intrigued in the bedroom and he won't want to stray away.
And words of advice you can't make someone love you. They have to love themselves 1st before they can/want to love you.
2006-12-15 02:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by wut's a girl 2 do? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband married you because he loves you. And what makes him love you is just the way you are. So, if you keep doing the things you've been doing, and do not get too bossy over the years, give him as much trust and confidence as he's willing to give you, and make love to him like it were the last day of your lives, everything will be just fine. When love dies, well, seems to me that it was ill from the very beginning.
2006-12-15 00:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by gaban24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can make another person love them. In break up of marriage, I find lack of mutual respect is an underlying cause. Or one grows and developes, while the other stagnates. There are many reasons.
2006-12-15 00:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's all about communication and sacrifice. Mine ended due to abuse. We hardly communicated, he'd rather be gone from home as I am with 2 kids trying to take care and make them happy. They had to watch us constantly fight. Then I found another girl's number in his truck. I stuck with him for years trying to make it work, just for the kids. Sacrificing my happiness for his. Doesn't work and don't ever do it. Now I am in a committed relationship. Both making sacrifices, crazy in love. Just keep up doing what you do while you are dating. If it lasts, it lasts.
2006-12-15 00:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋