2006-12-15 00:01:29 · 17 answers · asked by miscraterr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think it over carefully, are you ready to commit?
do what your heart tells you, i'd say wait til your older
2006-12-15 00:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Curt C. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. You are too young! Whats the hurry? If you two are really sure that this is what you want, and you are committed, you can have the patience and WAIT. If you cant wait - then you are not mature enough and it will never last.
2. If you are asking us, STRANGERS, then you are definitely not ready.
2006-12-15 00:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Trini Trixie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you seem somewhat unsure about your feelings toward him as well as your view of the future. I would expect that you would be best off telling him that you love him and that waiting a few more years while you get through college and get a job would be the prudent choice.
2006-12-15 00:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all do you love him??? second of all whats the rush??? because being married is exacttley like a relationship! and plus will your parent aprove??? and what happen if yal get married and then want to get a divorce???? i am not saying it will happen but it could happen!!!!! and if you want to marry him then i think you should and before all you need him to respect you and not hit you like some other guys!!!!!! well i hope you make a good choice!!!! good luck!
2006-12-15 00:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by ~Ruby~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do for real is sit down with him, have a few pieces of paper and ask questions, first question how much money a week do you make...put this down on the paper, then do you make the same amount every week all year round..if he says yes, then take the amount he gave you and multiply it by 52 weeks, then ask him what BILLS does he have, and make him give you all of them..then multiply them by 12 months, and subtract all of them from his TAKE home pay...then show him the end result.....now before you actually sit down with him for this, you look in the news paper at what apartments are renting for, and then when you have the result of his money, subtract the rent from his money and see what is left, ( if any) then take approximately 75 dollars a week times 52 weeks for food...comes out to $3,900 dollars for the year, subtract that from the number ( even if it goes into the negative numbers) now you have paid his bills, the rent, and bought food for the two of you for one year...is there any money left over..if so, then how about your bills, subtract them in the same way...do to forget telephone service or cell phones service costs, and about at this time he WILL be saying aren't you going to go to work, you will say your job is to finish school and get a college education, and his job is to pay for it all, and if the money went into the negative, tell him he HAS to do one of tow things or maybe even both of them, one...get a much better paying job with heath care benefits, two..get a second job to make more income to pay the bills..
or even get he better job with benefits and the part time job to put you through school..( you have to stay in school and not get pregnant..not get pregnant..you have to go through college = more money in the long run) and if you look at all of this, there may be no money for a car, or going out and having fun....but if he can really pay for it ALL, pay for it ALL ! , then maybe you can set a date for a 1 1/2 from now, and stay living with your parents until then, and DO NOT GET PREGNANT at all...you must finish college...do this, it will make him think, really think...plus for the entire year and a half, you WANT to keep the books, he should be saving his money just like you two were married..and you need to see HIS bank account every week to see that he is putting his money away..no joint bank accounts until AFTER you two come back from the honey moon..now the honey moon he pays for, should be at least Hawaii for at least one week...nothing less, do not accept anything less of what I told you...if you do, you will be sorry, sooner or later you will be sorry, so listen to me and do it..
but set the date for a year and a half away, and make him get you at least a one carrot diamond for the engagement...not after ..but when you say yes, he needs the one carrot or bigger diamond PERIOD! !...
good luck
smile
2006-12-15 01:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRL! HOW YOU GON ASK A STUPID QUESTION LIKE THAT? shoooot. mann. if you dont love him DONT SAY YES. and if you feel that your ready then go ahead, but i think that it is kind of a y;oung age, and that you should explore moree. im only 16 lmao. but stilll. thats prett young and stupid [no offense], and make sure that you have ur family's blessing before you try to pull a stunt k?
2006-12-15 00:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had to come on here and ask what to do then you apparently are not ready to be married.
2006-12-15 00:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by btyboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tellem NO! Go to and complete your college education. Both of you are toooooo young to even talke about marriage.
2006-12-15 00:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For heaven's sake girl..you are 17....take your time...there is no reason to rush..
2006-12-15 00:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lewis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur 17!!! SAY NO or ask him to wait till ur older..
2006-12-15 00:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋