I am now back in contact through email with the german girl I loved but broke my heart (see previous questions). She said she stopped contact with me for 2 months to give me a chance to think about things- this only made me more angry and upset. Although I REALLY want to trust her..I don't know if I can after all she has done to me.
I am also curious as to what this all means. She knows I cant be 'just friends' to her so why would she still want to talk to me?
2006-12-14 23:50:07 · 17 answers · asked by L666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lewis
(maybe this is Lewis Hamilton LOL doubt it LOL)
anyway
from one bloke to another never ever speak to her again she is a witch trust me mate ive been in your position earlier this year and no matter how much you love her and will never forget her at the end of the day
if she didnt give you a straight answer then she is not worth wasting your grey matter thinking about her
u'll never forget her yeah course! totally understand
but at the need of the day she is not worth your time.
You are a better person than she will ever be honestly buddy dont brood like you are doing
I did this and I was asked out by three realy hot hotties in a space of time and I turned them all down because I was brooding and thinking about my ex
and I so regret that because now its as hard as hell getting a gf to want to do more than chat/flirt with you
dont waste your time you are the bees knees and she is the mess that comes out of your bum when you go to the toilet
go out have fun, follow your interests, hobbies and a much better woman will come
this is coming from one guy to another and I dont knwo how old you are mate but im 20 and if ive worked this out you can!
good luck buddy!
2006-12-15 00:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Music fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you can't just be friends and you don't feel able to trust her then I would stay away and break all contact. It will stop you getting hurt again.
But having read your previous questions, I guess there may be more to it than that. Perhaps talk to her openly about what happened last time, find out her side of the story. Ask her to be honest with you, saying that's the only way you can move forward from here. If you honestly feel she had a good reason and is genuinely remorseful and wants to try again, then it may be worth giving it a go.
Sometimes girls are dumb and dont know what they want til it's gone. There is no guarantee that she wont break your heart again, but if after talking to her you think and feel it is the right thing to do then go for it. But make it clear that you can only give one chance, cos you couldnt bear to have your heart broken again. If, on the other hand, you think she may be using you, messing you around or stringing you along then say goodbye and never talk to her again.
All the best, x
2006-12-15 00:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun a german girl? why dont you find someone who really likes you. not trying to be mean but you sound like a rebound boy. If she keeps breaking your heart then it means nothing.It just a silly realationship that doesnt really mean anything. Take it from past experiences . I have been through alot of horrible relationships. Honesltly i know its hard to move on but you have to do what you have to do . Just be wicked social . Dont be shy around girls.I mean i personally like shy guys fun to make moves on but thats besideds the point. Also im sure if you try hard enough you can be just friends to her. I mean its a big adjustment to make but you can do it . Never say you cant do something because thats low self esteem .
2006-12-15 00:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by oh snapp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lew...trust me...this girl is playing with you...you don't stop contacting a person for 2 months to give you a chance to think things over...a few days is enough....if you have doubts about trusting her, then i suggest you take a step back...i think she may have someone in the sidelines hun...don't get burnt again....move on and forget her...because she WILL break your heart again....
2006-12-15 00:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i tthink she still loves you and i think you do to!!! but if you can't forgive her about what she has done then its best that you just leave her and by that i mean stop the contact and this e-mailing cuz then its going to be like you really want her back and that you forgive her!!! well thats probley what she feels and pretty sure you love her but you don't want to get hurt again well not say you should because i am not the boss of you just let her go!!!!!!
2006-12-14 23:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by ~Ruby~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing for you do is love yourself enough to know that you will be better off without her. Be strong and stand your ground. You CAN love again. How long will the pain last? That depends on whether you want to move on or remain unhappy and disrespected. Love yourself sweety. You come first... You know what you have to do--Just get it over with and move on. Trust-- You wont regret it...It feels so good when you get rid of that monkey on your back..
2016-05-24 19:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said an email girl meaning an email Girl friend!!! you know what u r the craziest person i'v ever heard of!! you dont even have an idea of what she has been doing in the 2 months she was silent, she might be on a mission. dont dare!! once bitten twice shy, she might give you heart ache
2006-12-15 00:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by vfm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive read your previous questions, now im thinking.."why on earth is he still even contemplating speaking with her?" i would just move on with your life, you WILL find someone else. this girl is just playing around with you as she knows how you feel about her. GET RID NOW!
2006-12-15 00:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you ever understand a woman please tell me, cause i would like to ask a couple of questions. Women are 10-47 (code for crazy). they will say one thing an mean another and expect you to know what the hell they are talking about.
2006-12-15 00:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Matt C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being just friends never works out! look forward not back! she broke your heart once she;l more than likely do it again! break ties now before you get too involved and she hurts you again
2006-12-14 23:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by aa_fugitive 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋