Does your loving partner get close and hug you after making love or he/she just gives you the cold shoulder?

Question

My g/f does usually gives me the cold shoulder and gets asleep right away making me feel a little sad about it.

Answer 1

Men are roll off experts! like union truckers they deliver 2 loads and then quit for the night! It is not their fault though once the Loads are delivered the lack of hormones make them indifferent. While we can keep going and so lay there looking at the weapon lovingly and wanting more or at least to be held they have NO emotion left.

Answer 2

Okay sometimes I am guilty of this.... feeling bad now... I mean not right after there's always the close 'afterglow'. But my husband is like a little heater. I need a little air LOL.

I wonder is she so exhausted from the activity she does this?
Cound be from total satisfaction or unsatisfaction.

Talk to her about it, then you will know the deal. Could be she's got emotional intimacy issues. Needs to distance herself?

Are we talking right away, not kissing or exchange of sweet words? More info would be helpful.

Perhaps she thinks that is what you want, that is why it's better to talk. In a non confrontational way. Some girls have been with guys who do that and then it's in movies, etc.. Kind of a guy stereotype (not saying it's correct) so maybe she thinks that is what you want?

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Answer 3

My man gets nice and close, we snuggle into each others arms all the time afterwards. Kissing and hugging until we fall asleep. You should talk to your girlfriend about showing some intimacy.....it sounds like you are having "empty sex". Obviously you want more, so talk to her and see whats up.

Answer 4

me and my boyfirend usually stay near eachother and hold eachother until we fall asleep for the night
its not good if shes doing that she is basically using you

Answer 5

No my husband holds me really close and keeps kissing my forehead

Answer 6

my boyfriend and i snuggle and fall asleep in each other's arms hehe