This guy is good in bed and stay erected for two hours but insisted that he has not done oral sex before and can not do it for me despite his professed un dying love for me.He wants it from me,and i have done it for him but he has refused me the same.so what should i do.
2006-12-14 23:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just work him up to it....be clean and odor free and let him kiss your thighs and touch you other ways around there...be sweet in the asking and don't make it a deal breaker...he wants to please you, he just has to get comfortable w/ putting his face some where he doesn't think it belongs...so help him with this...don't criticize...that is a big turn off!!
2006-12-14 23:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cadman1965 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some guys out there that haven't performed oral before and are scared to. My man hadn't before me and it took him a long time to work up the nerve to. Although he was also uncomfortable with me performing oral on him because he had never received it either. I think you should tell him how much you enjoy oral and get to the bottom of why he doesn't want to do it. Talk it all out and give him some time to warm up to the idea. If it's love then it shouldn't be a big deal to wait a bit for someone and he shouldn't have a problem trying new things. I wouldn't go down on him very often either....it may wake him up to what he's missing and get him to understand your point of view.
2006-12-15 08:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that won't do this is a male pig! Women deserve this! Men are too selfish and are afraid thet the woman will have too much fun!
2006-12-15 07:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you can suggest that you would really like him to expand his horizons and try something new that both of you will enjoy. If he is unable to try something for your pleasure, then I might suspect that he may hold back in other areas of your relationship. Talk with him while you're NOT in bed and ask him if he would work with you on it.
2006-12-15 07:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop going down on him and he'll soon give in and return the favor. If youre not getting it then he shouldnt either.
2006-12-15 07:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it you should just like him how he is not what he can do in bed if you wanna show him you love him dont force hi to do things he doesnt want to do
2006-12-15 08:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do oral for him until he does it for you.
2006-12-15 07:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Tina Shh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay down an ultimatim,.. go down on me,.. or i'm not going down on you
2006-12-15 07:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋