I've been working with this girl since August, and we've hit it off pretty well, we like each other, abnd recently we've started to go out to town, the bars and clubs, together.
On wednesday I texted her, asking her if there could ever be more to us than 'just friends'.
Yet she still, hasn't replied, what do I do? Do I text her again or wait for it to unfold by itself?
2006-12-14 23:19:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No dude, wait it out and see what happens.
Putting too much pressure on a budding relationship of any kind can be damaging and things may never fully recover.
The last thing you want to do is appear overbearing and complicated. Keep things relaxed and casual for now.......let her make the next move as the ball is firmly in her court.
If she wants more, she'll let you know!
2006-12-14 23:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Ted the problem with us guys ted, is that we rely too much on technology. for something too much a sensitive thing as this u shouldnt have text to her instead u should have talk about it directly n besides a shocking news is that i actually had a soft slap from my gf wen i said my love for her on the fone. anyway that slap had led to a kiss n then a hug n then so n so... by the way back to the topic,im sure that u may hav a little knowledge on how she feels for u n assessing that jus grab a bunch of flowers or a romantic dinner will always work n trust me love always has only one formula- its the old but the golden ways... gud luck n hav fun...
2006-12-15 07:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by gazxz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait to see what her response is, either by text or in person. That's quite a direct question to put to someone and she's probably weighing up the pros and cons of what to do next.
Don't hound her about it though, she obviously knows how you feel about her now and the ball is in her court. If you chase for a reply, you risk making her think you're desperate.
Just carry on as before.
2006-12-15 07:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her a bit of space - she is probably mulling over it - however when you do see her next time ask her if everything is OK with her texting service. This then makes an opening for you to ask her out personaly - if you like this girl then do it in person - if you asked me by text I would most likely think you are joking.!
2006-12-15 07:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will advice u to be more open and be serious with ur proposal,probably she might think u a joking. Let her see how much u cherish and care for her, then openly asked her if she love you too. Then u will know the way forward either tp persist or back out
2006-12-15 07:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Oloyede AB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem she doesn't want it to go further, but it would also seem that she does care what you feel as she hasn't known what to say to you. When you see her, you'll have to refer to the text otherwise it'll just muck even your friendship up. Have a sincere chat about it just don't appear needy or you'll jeopardise everything. She may come around to a further relationship eventually - stranger things have been known! Good luck anyway.
2006-12-15 07:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off you made the mistake of texting her instead of asking her in person. If you want to date exclusively ask her in person. She's probably thinking that if you this immature you have to text her about wanting to date her, what is he going to do if you two have an argument or break up? Text message her that too?
2006-12-15 07:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No let her reply in her own time. One thing with women is not to force otherwise they end up saying stuff they think you wanna here and it all ends up a bit messed up in the long run.
Maybe shes waiting to reply in person. If shes says shes not into it with you too just yet, then just accept and wiat, she may change her mind.
2006-12-15 07:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by jessieket04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that was the wrong msg to send. Girls respond better to actions. You pretty much blew any chance you had with her. If she liked you more than "just friends" she would have let you know straight away not 2 or 3 days later.
2006-12-15 07:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by rmxer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for it to unfold by itself, she may at this time regard you as, just a good friend, as you've not heard back, it's time to step back a bit and allow things to develop in their own way, if they're meant to. Don't rush her. Good luck, you sound very caring.
2006-12-15 07:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋