ok my best friend's brother was leaving for iraq and my friend CJ was really sad, he was actually depressed and i had a bf, well i went to CJ's house everyday to see him, and there was oneday i went to his house and he was just sitting there and i asked him what was wrong, he started smiling and walked up to me he leaned over and kissed me on the lips and said thanks, i've finally figured there is more to life than worrying about my bro. i just looked at him and he walked away
ok...the thing is im confused, i know its cheating if u kiss some guy but CJ is my best friend and i had no clue what was going on at the moment, so would it still be cheating or not because right now i feel kinda guilty
2006-12-14 23:12:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CJ and i have never done anything before from holding hands to datind, where like brother and sister, and to my dad he is the son his always wanted but didn't have
2006-12-14 23:18:54 · update #1
Your fine as long as you didn't enjoy it or go all the way.
2006-12-14 23:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by FIRE § 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is when you have feelings for someone else other then your present bf when the kiss happened. If CJ is on your mind and you did not stop him from kissing you in your eyes it could have been an innocent kiss of friendship. But in CJ's eyes it could be he wants more. If you are in love with your present bf and really do not want anything more with CJ then just friends, it may be time to put some distance between you and he. Spend more time with your present bf and make him feel wanted and needed. As long as the feelings between you and CJ are innocent and you have no feelings for CJ then you did not cheat. If you do have feelings for him and want to explore them then be honest with your present bf and let him go. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-14 23:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty, feel mistreated. You are not wrong, and , yes, keeping those actions would mean cheating, but, CJ was wrong for doing that to you. Do Not go around him unless your BF is with you.
2006-12-14 23:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey in case you've already got information he's dishonest ("So i imagine my bf is dishonest doing the internet ingredient I do have information, yet he hides his "cookies" temp archives that may hint what you're doing on line.. ") why would you opt to proceed torturing your self searching for more desirable information? only kick him to the dimensions down noone advantages to be cheated on. i understand its a lot less stressful stated than performed because i'm constructive you want him, yet love your self more desirable. No guy is ever properly worth your tears.
2016-10-18 07:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a friendly kiss but that shld be on the cheek and not lips...hmmm....i dun think it's cheating...as long as u didn't give him the wrong signal(body language) or meaning when u kept visiting him, try to make that clear with him...hmm...that's all i cld think of.
2006-12-14 23:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friendly kiss does not make a cheater, especially as a thanks. You wouldn't be cheating if you kissed your brother like that. Making out with him would.
If you are that worried, ask your b/f what he thinks the boundaries are as his thoughts are really the only ones that count.
2006-12-14 23:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'ts not cheating his way of thanking you.Now if you would have stayed that would have been another story.Maybe you feel guilty because you are courious.
2006-12-14 23:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by sean c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was just a casual peck then no i say that is ok between friends but if it was a deep kiss where u participated then thats cheating.....dont feel so quilty you did nothing wrong!!
2006-12-14 23:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by debbiemccoy64@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is simple it is something you do when your not around your other half. If you wouldn't do it or say it in front of them then you are cheating and you know that you are.
2006-12-14 23:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi Mikey!
I think you mustn't feel guilty ,cause he kissed you and not you him and it's different things
I also think you have to tell your bf about it ,cause if you won't do it , somebody'll tell him about this incident and, you know, it'll be very awful!
However he's your man , that's why he'll understand you , cause he loves you! :)
2006-12-14 23:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋