I just want to know the chars. and qualities a decent man would consider having as a partner in a relatonship... what kind of girls do they prefer?
2006-12-14 23:06:16 · 12 answers · asked by jamie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can only speak for myself, but I require a woman who is pleasing to the eyes. You don't have to look like Nicole Kidman or Demi Moore to keep yourself up. Be ready to "cater to " the guy you like. If he cmoments that he likes a woman's hair a certain way, or like a certain clothing style (prefers tight jeans to short skirts), be sure you wear clothing he likes, and be sure he notices. "You said you like very tight jeans! Did you notice I'm wearing jeans so tight you can see the date on the dime in my pocket?" Be agreeable. Don't forget guys are human. He'll be more attracted to you if you don't require him to "behave a certain way". Let him be himself. I've had women ask me to take them home because I uttered a "damn" or "hell" or worse. Since sex and sexuality are a very definite part of a healthy male-female relationship, let him know you are a sexual person, and if the two of you connect emotionally and intellectualy, you are more than ready / WILLING to take care of his physical needs as well. You'll be more likely to get the guy you want if you take pains to be the girl the guy would want. Be self-confident. Don't only want to "be a part of his world". Have an interesting world of your own. Have goals, interests, and things to do. Find lots of time for him, but let him know that you are "finding time for him." Don't give him the impression that the ONLY thing in your whole world is him. You'll be a WHOLE LOT more interesting, if you're interesting.
2006-12-14 23:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by John1212 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well good looks is a necessity for most of them. and u shouldnt be a snob, moody kind of a person. u should be urself. frankness helps a lot.and the girl should have decent language as well. if ur in for a serious relationship like marriage then guys usually dont pick all that good lookin girls. a well educated homely woman is quite enough
2006-12-14 23:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by swap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody that looks good, has a sense of humor and is opened minded. But most important, keeps everything on the for real.
2006-12-14 23:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I want a girl who shares my/a good sense of humor....some one I can talk to with out getting bored...a girl who will listen to reason and logic rather than relying on emotions to make decisions.... a girl who is easy on the eyes doesn't hurt at all.....a girl who can keep a job and realizes the responsibilities of life.....also a girl who shares my religious ideas...hmmmm
2006-12-14 23:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Matthew 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Different guys has different ways of looking for their decent girl. For me, she shld be nice, friendly, understanding, sweet, not a smoker(i hate it), outgoing and direct..that's all i can think of for now.
2006-12-14 23:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by DooGie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they prefer decent,honest,loving,caring and good characters in a girl.
the girl should be neatly dressed.
2006-12-14 23:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reserved, good looks of course,good sense of humour and understanding.
2006-12-14 23:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they prefer girls with big boobs and a hott body. some like them tan. they like long blonde and brown hair. they like a girl that is good in bed
2006-12-15 00:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cavegirl948 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pretty but not too pretty, and a friendly personality.
2006-12-14 23:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-a girl who is fun.
-can be her own person.
-have her own idenity
-know how to rock his boat
2006-12-14 23:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by roberto3331 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋