could you please answer these questions
if you hurt a guys feeling would they stop talking to you.
and what does it mean if a guy you like when you have a chat you have to start it of sometimes
2006-12-14 22:39:57 · 9 answers · asked by palmtreesareheaven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know this guy and sometimes he make himself look upset when i said no i will not go out with him
2006-12-14 22:42:54 · update #1
If you have hurt a guys feelings yes sometimes they will stop talking to you and sometimes they won't they just aren't as kind to you as they were before. So you have to start the conversation off. Guys are not good chatters and women always seem to start the ball rolling. So roll away, once the ice is broken he will chat away. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-14 22:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'll answer in reverse order of asking:
When you have to start off a chat sometimes, that means he doesn't have to do all the talking; sometimes it is nice to hear from the other person first. Sometimes people are just busy though, but at least he's taking time to listen to you. It's normal not to have one person always start the conversation.
Have you ever not taken hurtful words or actions in stride? Guys are human too. They do not like to feel hurt and will generally avoid it. Some are more blunt than others and some are more concerned about avoiding "discussions" or arguments than others, and will not tell you how you hurt their feelings, and they will retreat for a bit. That's just how some people, guy or not, are.
You can tell if you hurt a guy's feelings when you know in your heart you said or did something a little off toward him, or see there is something you said or did from which he could have received the wrong impression. It's best just to ask and risk being laughed at or putting your foot in your mouth than to just write it off. That way you can apologize and set it right before he gets to thinking too much about it.
2006-12-14 22:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They would probably quit talking to you for while, hopefully they'll get over it and start talking to you again. If you have to start off chatting with a guy some times thats ok, some times guys don't have much to say. If you're doing it all the time then they're no interested in you.
2006-12-14 22:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If they do and you have to constantly pull conversations about their feelings about it...let it go. There is a reason we should not allow the sun to set on our anger.
If you find yourself always having to start the conversation perhaps he's thinking that you talk too much or maybe he doesn't feel like talking or maybe if you want to talk to him, you're the one that's going to do most of the work and eventually you'll end up angry and frustrated with him. You'll end up bored with him and someone or you both may end up hurting.
2006-12-14 22:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just ask, be sweet about it and let him know you didn't mean to. The most important thing between two people is their ability to communicate together.
2006-12-14 22:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by zelin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel. I did that once - told him I'm sorry and if he really likes you - he'll probably bounce right back. Good luck:)
2006-12-14 22:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by j b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surprisingly... us guys are human and hurt the same as you... look for the signs that you would exhibit if you were similarly hurt.
2006-12-14 22:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by jonti 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can spot telltale signs like him being more quiet, and more distant from you.
2006-12-14 22:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he stops talking to u.
HE'S HURT.
2006-12-14 22:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by roberto3331 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋