Have you felt like this after a heart break ....?
Do you feel extremely sad. Do you feel that the she was the only one in the world. Do you feel that nothing in life is better than having her, neither a flourishing career, nor lots of friends, no program on TV, not even driving.
And then, when you hear that she has started seeing someone, what you do?
2006-12-14 22:29:57 · 21 answers · asked by Infinite 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first i guess its normal to mourn over this hearbreaker.....but it onyl goes up from here..... find some friends to go out with enjoy life....live it to the fullest....go out and find some other girl...move on....its not worth to dwell on this....you lose out in the end...not her....so pick urself up....b happy :)
2006-12-14 22:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by sanam9188 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got too pulled in, man. You gotta break ties and let her go. I don't say this lightly as I've been through this pain. Took me 7 some odd years to really give dating a chance again when my (almost) fiance left me.
Trick is, you have a choice, every day you get up. You can think about her, or you can do something different. There is no "meant to be" that doesn't work out. There are no "soul mates" that aren't meant to be together. You need to destroy the whole "What If" complex and dive into life in a way you may have never done before. Learn something new. Try new things. Be adventurous on your own. Its hard, no doubt about it, but from my own experiences, it IS survivable and for your trouble, you learn invaluable lessons of life that can then be taught to others going through what you once did :)
Let her go, bud. She can't hurt you anymore. Only you can, by holding on something that just ain't there.
2006-12-14 22:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by guardian707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have just experienced the "death" of your relationship with her and it is hard. Everyone has gone through this and your feelings aren't any different than anyone else's. It is hard to move forward with life, but you must find the strength. This is the time to honestly and logically review your relationship skills.
WRITE THEM DOWN...MAKE A JOURNAL...TAKE IT ON AS A PROJECT
I can't believe she was the only one for you. If she was, she would still be cherishing you and she isn't. What specifically did you like about her? You might find only superficial things and that you have imagined more good about her than she deserved.
List her strengths
What are her weaknesses?
What were her short term personal goals?
What were her long term goals?
Wo was she?
Where was she going?
Why was she here?
Then list yours
We learn so much from our misfortunes
When all kinds of trials and temptations crowd into our lives
don't resent them as intruders, but welcome them as friends.
You will learn so much from this heartbreak and it will help you find that "right" person who you can enjoy life with.
Good Luck
2006-12-14 22:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take heart. relationship can never be onesided.It is possible you had gone too far and too fast. Any relationship would start as a friendship and then blossoms further. If you coax it , adding chemicals and fertilisers, it is going to whither away.
Yes. You will feel sad. You will feel lost. But you would have learnt a lesson too.The lesson would be that NOT every relationship would automatically end in "happiliy lived everafter" point. Atleast try to retain friendship relationship, in future such opportunities.
2006-12-14 22:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by YD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it gets said, move on. You don't have to do it now but you have to do it eventually. A woman is a woman. There are millions more in the world, and there always will be. Heartbreaks are the same, in my eyes, to getting the flu. You can sneeze, cough, take pills, or wait it out, but anyway you put it, its gonna go away after time, so just let it do that.
2006-12-14 22:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
soreness is a wierd element. Burning a finger or stubbing a toe can harm all nighttime, yet when I shattered my wrist into 20 products (bones protruding), i did no longer sense something in any respect. i assume i became in basic terms into "operation mode," and that i found out that soreness could be a incapacity in getting mandatory scientific help. i do no longer think of the worst actual soreness can come on the part of the psychological soreness a lot of people have suffered. Merry Christmas, and all the wonderful to you and your loved ones. And be careful!
2016-12-11 09:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by kulpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, but hey I'm sure things will get better, everything happens for a reason. Look on the bright side, the person who she's seeing is at least not your friend or colleague.
2006-12-14 22:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by **BABY** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuck, i have been in this situation SOO many times... and i'm only 14! but it will get better... just give it some time. Schedule a night 2 hang w/ friends or family, that will cheer you up. And whatever you do don't put any of the blame on yourself... it was her stupid fault she dumped you, not yours, and it will just make you feel worse...
2006-12-14 22:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Vicky S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel bad that's normal. You need to start asking girls out & try having some fun with someone ele. You will find someone who you want to be w/ I feel strongly about just like your ex. Good Luck!
2006-12-14 22:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. It seems hard now and maybe even a little impossible to get over but eventually you will. Just give it some time.
2006-12-14 22:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋