Why do guys do this?

Question

I thought he was a really sweet guy. Genuine , nice to everyone all of the above. But he was playin with my heart constantly flirting and saying I love you and hugging me but meanwhile he has a gorgeous girlfriend and acts like he doesn't have one. Now that I know I'm really upset that he thinks he can just play around with my heart like that.. what the hey? It really hurts... he treated me like I was really special.. why? Why even bother? He's not the type thats after sex or anything like that he's a strong mormon.. and just a nice guy. So why was he constantly flirting with me? Why even bother..? It really hurts..

Answer 1

I wish I knew because I feel girls do this as well. Maybe he though you were a close female friend and was treating you as one. He is tying to keep you as a friend and you may have misinterpreted his feelings towards you. I'm sorry that it hurts. I know it hurts from personal experience. But miscommunication occurs at times. I recently talked with the girl openly and honestly and found out that I'm considered a close friend and confidante. I'm her safety net if anything goes wrong. I hope the pain will go away soon. Take care don'tgow/theflow. I hope an even better guy winds up on your doorstop soon.