It's 5 mos. ago when i had no personal communication wl my ex b.f and this only mo. of December we've reconciled again then I made a first way to have make reconcilliation with him....is he showing for me a real love or is he pretending?...pls friends to me out there help me....advise me too..
2006-12-14 19:29:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Going back to your ex is like the lowest thing you can do. Stop it. Open your eyes. He just wants sex. He probably didn't get any for 5 months and he's tired of using his hands. What the hell do you think is going on? Remember why you broke up in the first place.
2006-12-14 19:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-08 03:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Tomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, set him free. If he returns, he's yours. Stop going out with him immediately. Even if you still enjoy each other's company, this will end badly. My brother dated a girl for 2 years had an amicable breakup and still spent 80% of his time with her for 10 months. He thought they would eventually get back together while in the meantime she was using him as an alternative to a real relationship, and affection, until she found someone she was romantically interested in. She completely abandoned him when she dated someone new, which was messy because technically she was well within her rights to date other people but she knew his feelings for her. Yet, she completely, with utter disregard to anyone but her selfish self, she broke his heart. They're no longer friends. Stop seeing him immediately and move on before you fall back in love with him because there is a good chance that he is using you (even subconsciously) as a safety net until he is ready to start dating again, or until he finds someone new.
2006-12-15 12:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by JFAD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need a little more information...however, It sounds like you're doing all the work to make this relationship work. I think you need to think about this relationship so more. Is it worth your time trying to make it work? People break up for good reasons due to wanting different things from the relationship to not feeling the same way about that "special" person. And, who did the breaking up? If you did, then I can see you doing the reconciling...but if he did the breaking up, you need to ask why he wants you back or if he wants you back. I hoped this helped!!!
2006-12-14 19:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say this time play a bit harder then last time, dont give in too much as you used to. Show how your seroius this time and dont be afraid to be yourself just to keep him.
If you see he tries harder, appreciate and try the same. If you see he's playing then confront, be in control and show your no woman who can be played with.
You just need to step your foot down. And its not your fault. Dont be afraid he can do the same thing twice, maybe he really is seroius. Go and find out
2006-12-14 19:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the only one who knows his self, if he is pretending or have real love for you. Don't feel insecure he can sense that. The name of the game if you want love is,show some enterest to him,show him that you care, make him comfortable when you are with him.
2006-12-14 19:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chay...
How do you feel about him? Do you believe he is telling you the truth this time? The only way you can know is to give him a chance...It is hard because once wounded you feel as if you are going to die...but if you have recovered enough to accept him...give him another chance
But I do think it says...Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me...so this is an important decision? Are you willing to risk it???
2006-12-14 19:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-13 21:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are certain signs.... but there might be a posibility that he's just reconciling coz christmas is coming!!!
2006-12-14 19:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by â?¡Jei-Jeiâ?¡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too soon to tell if youve just reconciled very recently. give it some more time. silence hurts...ur still hurt from the silence.
2006-12-14 19:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋