Will you still be her friend if you are in love with her but she has a BF already or would you avoid her? This guy knows I love a guy already but I told before I fell for him too...but now I am clear. He told me he could never be angry at me and if I someday get married he wanted to come. Now he is avoiding me if I tell him I a m sorry for the mess it was my fault and I want to make it up to him and send him a present but he won't answer me anymore..I don't know why if he only wants me for a friend..I REALLY DON'T THINK HE WANTED ME FOR A GF and I wonder if it because he doesn't want me to get confused again or what? He told me he would miss me if I went to Italy for vacation and he hope we can meet someday..so I don't know why he won't answer me if he wants to be my friend.
2006-12-14 19:29:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't think he wanted you for a girl friend, just offer him sex. I will bet you a million dollars that he will jump at the chance of doing you.
Move on. There is no such thing as a guy friend. They are only your friends because they are just waiting in line to get in to your pants. If you don't think so, then ask all of your guy friends to have sex with you. Not one will say no.
You are just blind as a bat. You need to pay attention to what a person DOES, not what the person SAYS. Action speaks louder than words. It's so obvious it hurts. You are a dense woman.
2006-12-14 19:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a bit confusing reading but i understand it now. This other guy that likes you is staying away from you despite saying he wants to be friends and this is confusing you when you are making an effort.
All I have to say is, i believe this guy may still want to be your friend, but is taking a bit of time to adjust to the rejection of being your special friend. He, after all, also have a heart!
Try to give him space. He said he would be your friend, and so he will. Give him time to recover and come back to you slightly whole.
And you, should focus on your own relationship with your bf. Do not try to make contact with the other guy. Wait for him to be ready and he shall make the move. DO NOT GIVE HIM PRESENTS... it will not heal his heart, but only makes him and yourself confuse.
2006-12-15 03:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has the problem not you.. you are willing show you feelings and be friends, and he can not wrap his head around that.. He is a silly man, but most are.. I really think I would move on, and find someone I could truly be happy with and stop waisting my time on him.. if it is meant to be he will come back to you in the end..
2006-12-15 03:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by nannyj37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you did was you have expressed him your real feelings and that counts a lot for him because you treat him more than friends and maybe he felt the same way and he denying it to you coz in some way he respects your friendship....mmm... in the right time he could be true to you...goodluck!!!
2006-12-15 03:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋