one time when he was five, by his parents maid. but he said she only did it once and did not force him, make him feel pressured. he said that at that age he never even knew it was wrong especialy if she didnt make him feel pressured. he also said that a few minutes into it he didnt want to anymore and she let him stop and they did something else. but he said she was very good to them always took care of them played toys with him and was very nice accept thta one time. and she also didnt even tell him not to tel anyone. which is what realy made him think nothing was wrong, he said he just thought it was another form of playing or wrestling. but my question is could this have affected him? he says it didnt and its not like he was forced and it was a daily thing. it was one time and never agian. what do you think????
2006-12-14 19:23:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sure there's a chance it could have affected him, but it doesn't sound like it was too traumatic as he did have some control. Of course, at a young age things can easily affect you. If he says it didn't affect him then all you can do is trust that, but also if he ever feels the need to talk about it, be there. Just listen.
2006-12-15 04:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by bsebl12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t believe it affected him as there was no pressure on him and was stopped when he wanted to. Children who are forced into doing something wrong or are ashamed of the things done to them or by them are the ones who are affected later in life. He thought of this more like a game that he did not enjoy, like any regular game that you do not like. Do not worry about it or force him to talk about it or analyze it if he doesn’t want to as he now knows it was not proper behavior and he might start second guessing is feelings.â¼
2006-12-19 01:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋