I meant this 21 year old guy online I am 25 and he makes me smile with just the little things he says and does. We have not had any physical contact yet but 2morrow he is meeting me at the laundromat to help me with my laundry. That will b the 1st time we have contact and I already got butterflies. Should I be feeling like this over someone I have never meant in person? I have BF and I no it is not morally right but he set these events in motion 4 me! We just had a baby 3 months ago and I thought that it would be h happy time 4 us but it is actually worse. All I want from him is time attention and affection we are barely having sex mayb like 4 times a month we dont cuddle we dont talk when he is home he is watching tv and I am on the computer and he is happy like this, but the guy I meant wants to gimme the things i dont have home. I am afraid I will fall 4 him and destroy what I have at home but what do I really have? I just appreciate the little things my friend does what should ido
2006-12-14 19:01:16 · 10 answers · asked by yousexythangyou 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry hun, i couldn't read the whole thing. It has been my experience that when you get these weird little fluttery feelings when you are talking with someone online that you are picking up on them on a psychic level. Weird I know, but you're feeling it aren't you. See how it goes doing the laundry.....if you feel that chemical attraction....dump the boyfriend, he isn't feeling your needs anyway. If he had been you would not have had the empty space for someone else to fill.
2006-12-14 19:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy with him then there is no point in staying with him. You should talk to your boyfriend and tell him that your not happy maybe he will be willing to work on it. Do you really want to go from one relationship to another anyways?Also you just had a baby three months ago and you might be going through post par tum depression and it might just be you.You need to evaluate your life and way you options, your a mommy now you just cant be bringing people in and out of this baby's life. You need to make sure that you don't love your bf and that you want to keep going on on your own which is the best thing to do instead of getting into another relationship.
2006-12-14 19:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by putty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything you will regret in the future. you just like the attention this young fellow is giving you, but deep down you know you wish your partner is doing these things for you. so why don't you talk to your partner and let him know how he could be supportive to a new mother.
having a new born is hard, its harder if you don't have the support from your other half, just talk to your partner, let him know you need more attention and you will appreciate if he could help you in some ways. tell him you need to feel his affection for you, just say these things to him and hopefully he will change how he is around you, and once he does, you guys will be happy with the new baby :)
good luck hun
2006-12-14 19:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by devviash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let your relationship with the guy you have a child with be ruined..you just lack communication and understanding..if you talk things out, maybe you can save your relationship..what you feel for the other guy is just a result of your longing to feel love from your boyfriend..save your relationship and do not create anther problem..
talking about age, it really doesn't matter as long as both of you are happy and contented with each other..
but still, don't set aside your kid's father..you might realize one day that he is still the guy your heart needs and not a "stranger"..
2006-12-14 19:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one you have no idea if this guy really wants to give you those things or not, just that he says he does. two, there is no such thing as love, just long term mutual toleration. so if you like what you have at home, you should stay there. nothing good can possibly come out of meeting this guy if you want to keep what you already have.
2006-12-14 19:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by DR Zuess god of the misinformed 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am too falling in love with a younger guy...at least 4 years difference..and i dont care....my parents friend is married to a guy 12 years younger than her and they are happily living together and 2 children...
2006-12-14 19:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by LotsaQs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding??? selfish and self centered thinking!
your baby needs you!! Youve barely mentioned your baby!!
Apparently you have a trusting good stay at home hubby and thinks your doting on your child. you seem to be the big baby in this relationship.
2006-12-14 19:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him that you are not interested in him and ask him that he could be just only be Friends with you and that all baby!!
2006-12-15 14:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by BullShit Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with what you got.
2006-12-14 19:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by maggotier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
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2006-12-14 19:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋