do women really like loyal men?

Question

Im loyal boyfreind and always have been..but does it seem boring to women in a long term relationship..knowing that their bf is never going to cheat on them or never flirt.. or would they like know their bf has a little mystery left in him..would it help the relationship if women had to keep workin on stayin #1 in their bf eyes.. im not sure if this is coming out clear..but let me know and ill try to get it out..

Answer 1

Of course huni. Hands-Down.

HOWEVER, when I was dating this guy (10 yrs) I did like it when other girls would flirt with him, he never reciprocated their advances so it was cool, I didn’t trip. Why did I like it? Because, depending on how cute the girl was, it made me think “ooh... he’s still got it” and besides, he was coming home with me in the end.

NOW, if there was some flirtin’ and I thought the girl was attractive, and he was up for it, I wouldn’t mind taking someone home once in a while.

UNFORTUNATELY, it was never done, because he remained loyal. I mean it wasn’t “unfortunate,” anyway...

WHAT’S THE POINT? I guess what I’m trying to say is that it’s not “loyalty” that I (personally) really like/value, it’s the open communication and the complete honesty that turns me on the most. Once you have that, the skies the limit.

“The foundation stones for a balanced success are honesty, character, integrity, faith, love and loyalty.” - Zig Ziglar

.pEace.

Answer 2

Girls really like men who are loyal.But this does not include men who are always hanging around you.They also like men who give them space to hang out with other friends.flirting is ok cos it spices up the realtionship and brings a new glow.As long as nothing happens afterwards.You have to continue living ever after getting a gf.I think girls love men who are themselves .So if you are naturally loyal then that is your strongest and positive attribute and you must stick to it.It is the law of nature that you will awlays get what you give.You are a unique being and you shoukn't change yourself just for the sake of being liked by girls.

Answer 3

What a dumb@*** you really are. So sad that you base all black women not being loyal because you saw a couple of movies. Most black women do not date out of their race, SO FOR THE MOST PART YES. Black women have been very loyal, but for what? To be called nappy headed hoes by their own men, to be told they're nothing compared to another woman of a different race, to be told they are ugly, dirty, on welfare, baby mama drama by their own men? Last time i checked, being loyal got they @sses no where. life is too short to be treated like sh!t. Move on ladies. Edit: lol typical black man, assuming a black woman will move on to a "white king". Like really you are an idiot, And you were a waste of sperm and egg.

Answer 4

Do men really like loyal women?

Answer 5

It's a matter of opinion.

Some girls and/or woman, LOVE (as in love w/ a capital 'L' my friend) loyal guys. Because to most of them, almost every relationship is a marriage candidate. Who would marry a guy who's going to cheat on her?

However, there are other kind of woman. Personally, I would hate waking up everyday knowing my boyfriend is never going to cheat on me. It's not a psychological issue, trust me. To me, if I give you the license to flirt/try going out with other girls, that means, I'm also allowed to do the same. Otherwise, I'd take it you expect me to be faithful to you 110%.

Which, I dread. After all, the world is full of good-looking guys. But that doesn't really make me a slut. Because at the end of the day, it's just fun and games with all those other people. You know that when it comes to what counts, you matter most to her.

The challenging thing is to make sure you're the ONE, and not just another fling. Excitement, my friend.

Answer 6

Stay loyal! Women like the security of knowing where they stand & what they have. I know because I have a bf just like that. It is definitely anything but boring. Women go crazy over him even though he doesn't flirt because he is such a gentleman & that makes me appreciate him even more. And I am so secure myself that I don't get jealous when he gets any attention. We have a very secure relationship & an understanding w/one another that the other doesn't need babysitting by the other. This took me awhile to come to grips w/since I came out of a marriage & then another relationship (prior to my current bf), both of whom were cheaters. Hope this answers your question. And hope you trust me out of years of experience on this one! The best to you & yours!

Answer 7

WELL OVERALL I WOULD PREFER A MAN THAT IS FAITHFUL THAN A PLAYER OUT THERE SLEEPING AROUND. SOMETIMES I USE TO THINK THAT A PLAYER WAS SO EXCITING, BUT SLEEPING AROUND IS NASTY. IF A WOMEN DOESN'T LIKE THAT YOU ARE FAITHFUL, THAN SHE SHOULDN'T BE WITH YOU. SOMEONE WHO IS LOYAL TO ME IS A TURN ON. TO KNOW THAT THAT PERSON IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE THERE AND GIVE THIER SELF ONLY TO ME IS HOTT!!! NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE STAY LOYAL, DO NOT CHANGE A THING YOU ARE FINE THE WAY YOU ARE. LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T WANT SOEMONE FAITHFUL WANTS A MAN THAT SLEEPS AROUND AND CHEATS ON THEM. SOMEONE WITH RESPECT FOR THEIRSELF LIKE YOU SHOULD BE A PLUS!!! DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS THAN THE BEST WHENIT COMES TO A RELATIONSHIP. SOMEONE WILL CHERISH A LOYAL PERSON LIKE YOU. I THINK THAT IT IS REALLY GOOD YOU ARE LOYAL, KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK

Answer 8

the whole idea of a woman keeping you only looking at her is a trick that we've been caught in sense we swung out of the trees and even before that. As mammals we bond with them on a hormonal level. and yes by looking at other women makes them reaffirm their control over you. but beware, they are also driven to sneak over the hill for some wild stuff too. Usually someone bigger or badder. Hey we're like dogs in heat always with our noses in the wind.

Answer 9

I think so. The problem is most men don't worship their woman and most women don't think they deserve to be worshipped. Being loyal does not have to mean being boring. You still have to have a voracious appetite for the woman you love and she for you. A relationship should never get boring, comfortable does not have to mean boring. It is what you make of it.

Answer 10

Hmmmm, that's an interesting take. I think you should just concentrate more on being the kind of man that a lot of girls lust over rather than actually engaging other women. You don't even need to flirt or cheat, to put that bug of doubt and jealousy in her head. If you look and act legit, girls are going to notice you which she, in turn, will notice. Girls are emotional glasshouses to begin with. It is more than easy to make them crazy with jealousy without even stepping over the lines. Just stay on top of your game, and she'll stay on top of you. ;-)