Well I know this guy ((not in person tho)) and he has a picture of me...thats not really me. Now I really like him, but Im afraid to let him see the real me....what do I do??
2006-12-14 17:11:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you send him a picture of someone else? The jig is up, it's over. That is one big lie and I wouldn't count on him getting over it.
2006-12-14 17:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to be brave and take the risk of telling him that the picture isn't you. If you really like this guy, how far can it go by not being completely honest? Especially when you do actually meet, don't you think he would be upset? If he is worth his admiration of you he should be able to deal with the real picture. If he can't then he isn't the guy for you anyway. Who needs a shallow man?
2006-12-15 01:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Andee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK Help me understand what you are trying to say. You met this guy on line or what ever and you give him a picture of god knows who right? Well miss First of all you should never be ashamed of you after all it's not what he thinks of or about you it's what you think of or about him. Ok so you might not have hair down your back you don't wear a size 2 SO WHAT! So what you will do is get to know him and make your own decision.
2006-12-15 01:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by sun4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... well that is a big mistake umm try and say you gave him the wrong picture. But hey if he likes you for who you are than that shouldnt be a problem, but then again he might just be after looks or somthing. but yeah just tell him whats the worst that can happen?
2006-12-15 01:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not worry about hiding your identity , just speak to him and send your recent photo and ask his opinion about the photo and then explain him , being a girl from a reputed&descent family , you took decision to hide your identity . If he loves to hear your voice and love to chat with you , he will certainly except your revealing truth now . Good luck .
2006-12-15 01:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want to have a peace of mind, tell him the truth....tell him the real reasons why you're hiding the real you and probably he might understand you....if he will not accept you after your confession, just give him time to think things over and eventually he will understand you.
2006-12-15 01:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by diana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you need to tell him the truth about yourself..it is way much better to be honest with him and disclose an ugly truth than making him believe a beautiful lie..and be ready to accept the consequences..
2006-12-15 01:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by cosmos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how what he thinks you look like you really don't. Then if he still wants to see you get real sexy and show him the real you.
2006-12-15 01:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by Damn_Im_Fine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show him the real you. If he does not like the real you then he is not worth it.
2006-12-15 01:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're screwed. you can't start off with a big lie, becuase then everything afterwards is a lie. even if it isn't a lie, the person that was lied to will always wonder.....
2006-12-15 01:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋