hi im a mother of 3 boys all born via c-section my doc says i cant have another c-section becouse it would be to risky for me but my heart yarns for a lil girl so much now im not rich and i dont have a house but me and my husband would love to adopt a baby girl but we dont know wat are the prosedure were we need to go and if we can even afford it since we hard it coast alot of money does any one have some helpfull information for me thank u so much
2006-12-14 17:06:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
also if a child is in foster care and u adopt it is that different from regulary adopting a child and do i risk having the child tooken away if the parent comes back
2006-12-14 17:14:22 · update #1
Become Foster parents and request a little girl to adopt, some foster agencies will even pay the expenses to adopt a child. It is easier and faster to adopt when parental rights are withdrawn, meaning the child is up for adoption, and there is no parental involvement or visitation. You can view children that are up for fostering and adoption just go to myforeverfamily.org Also They do not require that you own a home to foster or adopt. We have fostered for many years. Best Wishes and Happy Holidays.
2006-12-14 17:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Janice 10 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is expensive no doubt, why not foster a 1 or 2 year old girl, you can request a child that is up for adoption or soon will be. The cost is pretty low & you will insure that a little girl has a great home, parent & hugs & kisses she so wants too!
You can foster which means the child can be taken out of your home. If a foster child is up for adoption the costs are much lower as the state picks up a majority of the costs and once the adoption is final you are mommy, no one can take the baby away!
2006-12-15 01:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoptions are lengthy and costly, you can either go through an agency where you pay the adoption agency, you go through several interviews as well as in home "inspections", where several factors are looked into, your background, lifestyle and yes even financial status. Or you can go through a lawyer again quite costly, because they usually search for young women about the give birth, generally you are expected to pay for the birth mother's expenses (doctor visits as well as hospitalization for when she gives birth) as well as pay for any complications that might arise. If you don't own a home that is a strike against you right there. Also you might want to get a better education since you have a lot of paperwork to fill out and you're going to have to be able to at least spell correctly on ALL of it.
2006-12-15 01:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so not true..look in the guiness book of world records and you will see a woman that had 11 kids all by c-sections so have another one yourself.
Maybe you can find someone that will carry your child for you like a surrogate mom. Ask your friends/sisters.
2006-12-15 02:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by LadiesLoveMySlasher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can go through adopted agency are through dss.it depends on where you live.
2006-12-15 02:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋