I am in my sisters wedding and I am her maid of honor. I made out with her fiance right when they started dating. We are really good friends now and that was 3 years ago... do I still tell her even though nothing has happened since?
2006-12-14 17:03:03 · 11 answers · asked by Ashlie J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO don't tell her that is the worst thing ever. Leave what is in the past right where it is. You don't want to be the person responsible for ruining a wedding. Nothing good can come of telling her. I know that it is hard because you love her, but trust me not worth the drama.
2006-12-14 17:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was most definitely wrong when you originally committed the crime, but I feel that there is no harm in keeping this information from her. This is only, of course, if you do not suspect him of cheating on her since than. A lot of things can change in three years and they seem to made it through, so I would not worry.
However, if it is bothering your conscious, I would certainly fess up to the act. Besides, you might be surprised that she already knows about it!!! ( I once made out with my best friends long-term bf when we in high school and just found out a few months ago that she knew about it the whole time!!! Man did I feel bad and guilty, but knowing she forgave was a huge relief!)
2006-12-14 17:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by jdcl3324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good could possibly come out of telling her this? She will NEVER trust you around her husband. It will always be in the back of her mind and she will be forever jealous of your friendship with him. Don't tell her anything.
2006-12-14 17:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you will feel sooo much better if you do. the weight will be lifted off your shoulders and you won't feel awkward around them. it was just a kiss and it was so long ago, i don't see her getting too mad about this.
2006-12-14 21:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!! This will serve no good purpose. One time....... if you were to ever tell her, it should of been FAR before now!
Your punishment for this is for you to carry this shameful secret to your death.
2006-12-14 17:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have said it way back then. Now you better take this secret to the grave. You little s lut
2006-12-14 17:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say no , wats happened in the passed should stay in the passed
2006-12-14 17:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by birdman_holla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, don't tell her. next time go ahead and have sex with him though. then you can worry about crap like this.
2006-12-14 17:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ruin this for her. Your the slut let her be happy.
2006-12-14 17:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please do not open your mouth because that is all history, but if you talk it will become here and now and that is not where it belongs
2006-12-14 17:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋