you make it clear to a guy you are seeing that you want NO GAMES! he says he don't either, but ends up playing games big time. why is that?
2006-12-14 16:50:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're in the real world sweetie!!
Thats most guys for you..
There are 'very few' guys who are truly loyal and trustworthy.
What you've experienced is something millions of woman have experienced all over the world.
Even married men cheat on their wives, but so do wives cheat on their husbands.
It's a dog eat dog world out there, and life is full of 'let downs',
'heartbreak' and burst bubbles', but now that you have learned the truth about him be far more leary next time, and learn to be more assertive about men you meet.
Play hard to get!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-14 17:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Guys tend to want to do what they want, they really dotn think about others feelings but their own. I think they say they dont want any games because they cant stand the idea of being played but they tend to go against there words. Not all guys are like this, if the guy is playing games and its bothering you. Tell him that you thought that it was an agreement that there wouldnt be any games in the relationship, let him know how it makes u feel and tell him if he continues to do so hes going to lose you. If he keeps doing it you can do better than this. You dont need to play his games anymore beat him at his own game and ditch him. Good luck sweetie
2006-12-15 00:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by saying 'No games' you make it obvious you've been a victim of 'games' before, so its kinda nothing new to you.
He probably doesnt think of things as games, just normal dating behaviour. What does no games mean anyway?
Just cos someone says 'no games' is a guy supposed to roll over and let a chick have anything she wants and get her own way all the time? No way.
You will never find a guy worth having if he rolls over and lets you tickle his tummy all the time, not manly.
2006-12-15 01:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are violating your rule right off the bat and playing games youself. What you should have told him is that you dont want to play any games that your not totally in control of.
2006-12-15 00:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
He ends up playing games with you because he does not REALLY like/love you. He will not REALLY look after you RIGHT. He will make a mess out of you and REALLY damage you.
2006-12-15 00:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are jerks, sometimes they dont mean what they say. Like when you hang out again, they start acting very immature. And you want to hit them...haha
2006-12-15 00:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just a silly little girl. Everything is a game to you. So shut the f up.
2006-12-15 00:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because he is trying to win your trust he isn't going to tell you that he likes to play games...that a major turn off
2006-12-15 00:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell i guy that before you have sex with him, i gaurantee he's gonna lie. you wont admit to you yes he's playing game, you just have to try and analize him and tell for yourself if he's playing games.
2006-12-15 00:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by nathasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm . . . if he really is playing games, he's a chump. Good night!
2006-12-15 00:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋