What if the person you secretly love tells you that he already found the one he wants to spend forever with
would you be brave enough to ask who it is or just bear the pain???
2006-12-14 16:47:38 · 6 answers · asked by toinky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This happened to me just recently. There is this man whom I am so attracted to in every sense of his being -- his passion for God, his sense of humor, his leadership, his wisdom, his courage and everything. And then I found out that he already laid down his intention of marriage to someone else, and this woman accepted.
It was a painful moment for me but something that I needed to hear as well because I knew that he really wasn't "THE ONE" for me. And so I simply made the decision to finally get over him and said this exultation from Songs of Solomon 3:5
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires."
2006-12-14 18:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Alias G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it...but is his heart literally in that "package" or like box thing....? If so, that would be kind of gruesome, but in a good way. I like that, but I'd put it in a sealed box, instead of a package. I think that if you write the war scenes, and describe the love between the two very well, then the book would be really lovely when it's finished. I like it, though! I like it a lot, actually. It'd probably be a very good story when it's finished. I think that she should kill her love in the end, because that's just so much more interesting then committing suicide to save her love, which is so boring. I love the idea of a good, pure, girl in love, that kind of turns "evil" and selfish by the end. I love that! I think that this would be a very good story idea. =]
2016-05-24 18:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal. Some tend to think that there is ONE out there for you. Its not true. Obviously you have to know EVERY ONE to find the ONE, and thats impossible. You mold yourself the ONE person you like. To put it simply there is a two way influence goin on, he adjusts himself to you, and you to him. So there is another ONE out there for you
2006-12-14 16:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? Go home and bang your head against the wall for not having said something while you still could.
2006-12-14 16:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, nicely but not as if you care "so much about it". I'm sorry for what your going through!
2006-12-14 16:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel
2006-12-14 16:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by Skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋