2006-12-14 16:10:23 · 9 answers · asked by santorosko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a new partner
2006-12-14 16:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that is is fair for one partner to go out and leave the other partner at home. You wonder are they doing something that they shouldnt be. I could tell you to go out to or to leave but I think that decision should be left up to you, only you know all the circumstances, But I will say this if you do stay in this relationship, tell them either you go with them when you want to or it is over, and be sure and tell them how you feel about them as a person it might make them see that you are really trying to save what you all have.
2006-12-14 16:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i was in that same exact situation. We broke up many times because of that. My boyfriend went out with his friends EVERY night. We started seeing each other while i was still a senior in high school, so at that time i wasn't able to go out much. He always got mad at me for not being able to hang out, but he just didn't understand. I got very sick and tired of trying to "control" him because when he was so focused on going out, he never spent time with him, totally messed up his life, and actually at one point almost got killed during a stabbing. Although he was stabbed nine times in some gang related rivalry which he wasn't even assoctiated with to begin with, he still went on and went out with his friends behind my back. Come along the 3rd year in our relationship, i said to myself: enough is enough. I left him for good. Or so i thought..i did go on to see someone else. Had a good relationship with him despite the fact that it only last like 2 months. But what i got out of that was: 1. a new experience and 2. his respect. We have gotten back together and have been for over almost a year now. He just simple respects and cares about what i say now.
You should show him you won't take crap. Crap only happens to you if you let it happen to you. If you feel that he want him/her to stop going out so much, you need to make him respect you. Yes, i said make. You need to show him that you may not always be there through EVERYTHING.
if it hurts you, let him/her know and see where that goes. If it doesn't work, you need to decide whehter it's worth it or not.
2006-12-14 16:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would leave the relationship. I don't know if you are married to this person but they certainly don't respect you and your feelings. If you are married, especially if children are involved, I would get some professional counseling. You need to work through this and find out why you got involved with this person in the first place. I am sure they were like this before and will remain to be selfish.
2006-12-14 16:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be suspisious ... but mayb if they go out alot most of the time they may have found someone new... very rarely they mayb plannig something for his/her partner
2006-12-14 16:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by baby_ashes_10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband leave me often but that doesn't mean that he's playing around.What's important is trust between both of you.Just keep yourself occupied and you'll find new happiness.
2006-12-14 16:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect it. They didn't change for someone else and remained the same. Rare find.
2006-12-14 16:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by ▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and if he still doesnt listen dump him
2006-12-14 16:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freedom for each other.
2006-12-14 16:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋