For some reason, females give me no attention whatsoever and it has been this way all my life. Even when dressed neatly and dapper, I still get no attention. I am a very quiet man and I am 24 years old. I have never had any genuine interest from a female in my life. I have totally given up on ever finding a ladyfriend. I don't even speak or talk to women at all anymore because I feel I won't accomplish anything meaningful.
Please comment
2006-12-14 16:04:40 · 17 answers · asked by wayne b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A little confidence goes a long way............
2006-12-14 16:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by tellme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very genuine, nice kind of guy. For some reason some women like the bad guys. However they end up being mistreated and then complain about why they can't find a good man. I am a woman I should know. However just wait... you will get what you deserve. Just be patient. Women also like men who are confident, and are kind of aggressive. Meaning, you may have to approach them, but start a conversation and don't get to nosey. Don't ask her too much about herself. Just start the conversation. You could say, Oh I didn't know you shop here. If you see a girl you knew. Then say alright, let her come for you. Some women also like to be in control. But don't act like you just have to have her around. Don't annoy her or act weird like a stalker. Women like this. You sound like the kind of guy I would date.
2006-12-15 00:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tonya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being too introverted, go meet people somewhere that you find interesting to you. Have your guy friends go out with you or maybe they could introduce you to some nice girls, but you have to make yourself known and make sure you know what you want and not hook up with any old thing. And if you have faith, Then the right woman is on the way just waiting for you but she won't find you at home watching tv.
2006-12-15 00:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even through it is the year 2006 a lot of women still appreciate the man making the first move (there are a lot of shy women out there too). If you don't put it out there that you are interested how do you kow if they are.
2006-12-15 00:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Zoey E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not about sex.It is who do you believe you are!!I was writing my MA thesis on this topic and I know what is the problem. You strongly believe that you are not able to attract any lady and you even gave up to do so.People can sense very easily if you believe in yourself or not. Women usually like man who believe in themselves, nobody like loosers!and you sound like you think you are one of them, yhough I do not think you are one of them.You need to start thiking that you are wonderfull guy!One of my friends-guy-is very bad looking, not educated umpolite, however, girls love him, because he believes that he is a wonderfull guy!Start telling every day to the mirror that you are great and you can have any girl tou want to have..after some time you will start believing this, your self-esteem will be higher and automatically girls will start to notice you!!!however if your self-esteem is so low that you are not ablo to change it yourselv you really need a good friend telling you that you area great guy or go to a therapist.I had the same proble, although I am a girl. I am very pretty, although I always thought that I am not worth of any guy, and nobody wanted to date me. then i started my studies.M attitude towards myself changed and now there are so many guys aroung me that sometimes I have really enough of them:)good luck!!you can change that!just start believing you are better thab you think.If it does not work, ask friends what do tehy think you should change in your behavior, cause objective judgment in this situation is crucial:)hope you will overcome the problem!
2006-12-15 00:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by oliwia1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go pursue what interests you. Get yourself out there, the more available and interesting you are to be with the more someone will want to be with you. Give of yourself, your time, your good will, volunteer and help others - it's an attractive quality and it ensures you will not be lonely.
2006-12-15 00:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ditch the shy act. if girls wont come over to you, you should go over to them.
you have to realise, for us guys, its like 10 lions going after the same lioness. you need to stand out.
who is a girl going to be more interested in, a guy who sits on the other side of the room, or the guy who goes over and strikes a wild conversation. he may be a jackass, but as far as the girl knows, its better than what you might turn out to be.
2006-12-15 00:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by krassin2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you hot.. are you tall... are you handsome... are you famous... ? you sound like you're none of the above so never expect females to give u attention unless u stand out with your charm or personality and you pretty much have to do all the approaching for the rest of your life.
gluck
2006-12-15 00:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dressing neatly is not enough for a women pay attention on you. u should mingle with people of your age. be social and open minded
2006-12-15 00:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by reema c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very quiet man...THATS why. Im not saying be loud, but GET IN THERE. Dont act shy, women like men who are confident.
2006-12-15 00:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a bit more noisier. If you're quiet, you're not interesting. :) I've learned that throught time. If I open my mouth and talk loud, girls tends to turn their head toward me. If I'm quiet, they tend to pay attention to any other things but me.... :)
2006-12-15 00:07:34 · answer #11 · answered by eth1_hifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋