I got in a fight with my bf earlier today and I think i gave him the idea that he is not a good enough bf. i felt horrible once i realized he thought this because he is a great bf and i love him to death. i feel like i really hurt him and wish there was something i could do to REALLY reassure him that he's great. I apologized to him and tried to reassure but i wish there was other things i could do. Does anybody know something or anything really that i could do to further reassure him of this fact? (plz no stupid answers telling me i should already know what to do or anything...)
2006-12-14 15:20:47 · 15 answers · asked by Bethany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I presume your apology was sincere. Get a nice card in the mail tomorrow, and buy him a nice little box of chocolates, or another gift, and enclose a note reiterating your apology, and telling him you love him.
Now, rehash that fight in your mind. What did you do wrong. . .something catty? Did you not LISTEN to what he was trying to say to you? Some girls like to talk, but are not interested in listening. Guys hear, but don't care to talk, too much.
Good luck
2006-12-14 15:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the best thing to do is sit down and talk to him and again reassure him that you were just angry and saying things without thinking (which we all do in the heat of the moment). Maybe try re-creating a special moment in your time together, a first date, somewhere special to the both of you, anything that shows him that you do care about him and that everything he has done with you is memorable. Good luck!!
2006-12-14 15:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by slknspphr3645 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should tell him that you are sorry and that you do feel really bad. You were not thinking when you got mad at him and may have freaked out a little bit. It is normal to get into fights sometimes. If he doesnt understand, then maybe it isnt worth it. You can do better. Just tell him the truth.
Good Luck.
2006-12-14 15:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by sassy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do would be talk to him some more, and keep reassuring him, because he wants it, even though he may not act like it.
2006-12-14 15:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Thesmartone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me like you are the rotten one in the relationship..if u do want him to feel better about things u should break up with him doing him a favor..he probably would thank you..who wouldnt want out..
2006-12-15 06:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime someone you care about tells you something like this it cuts deep...your fixing it should go on normally for the rest of your relationship...dont use words like this anymore and show compassion towards him...make him feel what was said was out of anger and you didnt mean it...but show it, like remorse, love and just spoil him a little bit....but make sure he understands that it wont happen again...and make sure it doesnt
2006-12-14 15:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by sweetness666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is always be classy....never be crazy!
In the future, think before you speak. (We all say things we don't mean...but sometimes it's hard to fix what we said in haste).
Sometimes the best thing you can do is say your peace and then give him space. Time will do wonders to heal a situation.
2006-12-14 15:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he how you feel and that you did not mean to get that mad. talk it over, because if you too do not talk about stuff there is nothing there. i do not want to say that because it is bad to think that way. if you want to do something nice for him do something you would not do for anyone else.
2006-12-14 15:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i messed up with this girl, but i apologized and talked to her and we were good. get him a great xmas present that shows you care. let him KNOW you care..
2006-12-14 15:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Confused guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he is great, and to show him do something he likes whatever that may be.
2006-12-14 15:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by Dan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋