Ok. I'm 18 and a senior in high school. She's a senior as well so thats where it starts. We don't know each other. We see each other once every few days in the school's farthest parking lot. She is really shy. She doesn't start conversations (I've noticed) While waiting for a ride every so often at school, she'll walk by really slow, look around (she waits for a ride too) and she'll linger for a little bit and then wait somewhere else. I notice she'll smile at me when I'm on my phone and she's walking away. I want to ask her out but I have no knowledge about her; other than she's shy, keeps to herself. I don't want to scare her away but I'd like to start something with her. I can tell she's a great person. Does anybody know any good conversation starters for two complete strangers??? [keep in mind, she's really shy and I'm a little =) ] If things go well, does anybody know any places for a first "ice breaker" date with a shy girl? Enough to get my point across but not too strong. thnx
2006-12-14 15:08:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just stand next to her and be all, "What's up?"
If she replies, start talking about something completely neutral, like a new movie that's out. then be all, "we should go see it," as all caually and stuff.
It puts no pressure on her.
Good luck :D
2006-12-14 15:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to start talking to her before you can ask her out. Do you know her name or have her number? Those things are very important. Form a connection with her through conversation while you're waiting for your rides. Ask her what classes she's taking and about her plans for after high school. She'll soon look forward to seeing you, if she doesn't already. You can try making her laugh by immitaing a teacher or classmate you can't stand. If she likes you she'll laugh even if you aren't that funny (I've done it...).She's shy so take it slow. You don't wanna come on to strong and scare her away. Make sure she's SINGLE.
2006-12-14 15:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Bebe Bluff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he has a crush on you and if he wasn't shy about it then you would just be another girl to him but since he is shy you are not :D But just give him lots of hugs and try to get it to where it is just you and him and if he gets shy and tries to leave hold his hand and smile and say but i want you to stayyyyy. Just try to make it noticeable that you like him if you do and he may get the point and that will make him a lil bit less shy but you can't do anything to help him not shy to asking you out.
2016-05-24 18:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi my name is sandy
well in your situation i think that a shy girl could be danger to or not either way we could make it? aja any ways next time you see her walking by you and linger? that's were you make that move OK,
she smiles at you you smile at her she linger then you come tourer's her you ll see her reaction if she fears or not or she is still waiting for you to get closer to her if so? #1-tell her my name is?
#2-whats her name? or wait until she tels you,
#3-then try to star a conversation by asking her are you waitting for some one and then go on to what she answers etc. you could offer giving a ride or walke her home you could doit smart boy if she accepts thats it boy your in! ask Q? about family how many bro and sis is in her family if she oldes or not etc. then ask if she is dating some one if not then ask her can you guys take a chance to now each other as frends then your on your own big guy come up with somethin you think or comes in your mine?
2006-12-14 15:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if she has any friends? That might help you for starting a conversation with her, to know a little bit about her. Girls always like it when you talk about them and compliment them. Remember....it's not about you at all. :)
A good "ice breaker" for a shy girl, I think, is to take them ice skating (hopefully you're in a place where you can do this). Shy girls usually come out of their shell when you take them ice skating.
2006-12-14 15:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by chris_in_columbia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur more than a little shy its pathetic... she could care less what you talk about... girls only care that you actually pulled your pair of balls together and talked to them... just go whatsup.. and then talk about something around u basic social skills... and seriously a shy girl would much rather appreciate if you take things slowly before asking her out.. that whole friends zone thing is retarded.. just make yourself comfortable around her and make sure she does around u.
im 18 too and my biggest pet peeve is to overthink a situation because sometimes i do it and regret it not acting
2006-12-14 15:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having the opposite problem! I am the shy one and I don't know how to get this really popular guy to pay attention to me!!!!
LOL
2006-12-14 15:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by LovingAngelsInstead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and ask around...ask other people about her. Talk to her friends...Befriend one of her friends and then when introduced go in for the kill!
2006-12-14 15:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a note and pass it to her, and smile when you give it to her... ask her if she wants to go somewhere after school, like a coffee shop
2006-12-14 15:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by HappyGoLucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pull an R. Kelly move and pee on her. It's winter and she will appreciate the warmth.
2006-12-14 15:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋