Ok so when me and my neighbor were little we used to be like a childhood couple. we would everything together and know we're grown up and we just kind of split apart. we both liked each other so one day i thought i give it a try and ask her out but she wouldn't think it would work out cause i don't know. I just gave up and didn't know what to do and now part of me still likes her but i don't think she likes me back. what should i do? I feel like giving up all hope..
2006-12-14 15:03:04 · 10 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm confused cause we made out before i asked her out and she said she did and all of her friends told me she really likes me......i don't know
2006-12-14 15:06:55 · update #1
Well, you had a friend when you were young, and maybe it is time to try to mend a friendship. You see, sometimes women are afraid of losing someone important to them by having a relationship with them, and so they sometimes even push the person away. I don't know what kind of sence it makes, but I do know that you should talk to her and explain to her that you would not like to lose her from your life, and if backing off is what it will take, then you would be glad to...
Don't let this get you down, because there is something you are not thinking about... you haven't thought that there are so soooo many other women out there. I will tell you something my father always told me, (and it is so true,) sometimes you have to close certain doors for better ones to open. In other words, you cannot see clearly the other doors or opportunities that may be right in front of you as long as you are only looking at her door. Please take this advice, and just know, there is someone out there for you. You deserve someone who really does want you, and no one deserves the heartache you are causing yourself. Look around, hun, see what or who you see... if there is no one there right now, be patient. You wouldn't want to rush finding the right person would you? To do so would mean you are settling and when someone settles for the first thing that comes along, they typically end up miserable... (take it from someone who learned her lesson on this.)
Good luck to you and I really hope this helps you! Hugs!
2006-12-14 15:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like the first time you asked her out she didn't feel the same way about you as you felt about her and she wouldn't go out with you because of that. If she is not on the same page as you then you should forget about her because a relationship can not work out if both parties do not feel the same way about each other no matter how hard you want it to. If you do really feel something strong and don't wanna just give up hope maybe it is worth a shot and you should ask her out again or find a way were you can win her over and get her to go out on a date with you and maybe that will change her mind. But if she made it perfectly clear to you that she wouldn't go out with you the first time then you should just move on. It will be hard to move on but time will heal the pain and you will meet someone else.
2006-12-14 23:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she's afraid of commitment. It could also be that she's afraid of losing a friend. If you like her then I wouldn't give up- but just back off and be her friend for now. Eventually if things are meant to be and the time is right you'll know.
2006-12-14 23:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be her idea, to expand the horizon of friend, to know as many as possible other's people, before she decided both are you suitable.
2006-12-14 23:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mat D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the feeling has to be mutual.
2006-12-14 23:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by De Nirezza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask again. She knows how you feel, if she feels the same let her approach you.
2006-12-14 23:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-14 23:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by veronica v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-14 23:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best you move on, she has, and you should as well. Good luck! :)
2006-12-14 23:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sound like puppy love....
well ask her out again
2006-12-14 23:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋