I'm so in love with him...Do you think he feels the same?

Question

We've been dating about 6 weeks. We are already sleeping together, but before you judge let me tell you we've known each other for six years and we are adults. Well our sex life is incredibly passionate, we just can't stay away from each other, the physical attraction is soo strong. He is very affectionate to me. We kiss for sooo long. When I have to leave he is sad and doesn't want me to go. He is going to drive almost two hours just to see me. Whenever I email him when we are apart he responds to my emails quickly. So do you think he has strong feelings for me too? How can I tell it is an emotional attraction and not just a physical one? My feelings for him are emotional and not just physical. I think about him and miss him all the time when we are apart. Thanks!!

Answer 1

Well it sounds like true love to me!

Answer 2

Well, sounds like he is crazy about you too.... but the fact that you're questioning this lets me know you have doubts.... And if there's doubts.... it's always for a reason. Sooner or later you'll know.... your question will be answered. An affectionate relationship lasts a lot longer than a physical one. Just give it time and enjoy it!! Here is something I'd like to share with you;

*If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
* If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
* Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
* Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
* Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
* Slower is better.
* Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
* If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you, as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
* Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
* Don't stay because you think, "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
* The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
* Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
* Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
* Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
* Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
* You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
* Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or is in a better job.
* Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
* Never let a man define who you are.
* Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
* A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
** All men are NOT dogs.
* You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street.
* You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a New relationship.
* You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.
* Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
* Never move into his mother's house.
* Never co-sign for a man.
* Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
* Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

I hope this helps.... Good Luck and Best Wishes!!!

Answer 3

Wow, how does it feel to be love? Its the greatest feeling the world. I think u guys being so far apart is so good for your relationship because when u see each other after so long apart its great. A good friend told me once if you want 2 know how a man feels about you ask him while you guys are having sex. It sounds weird but it works.

Answer 4

next time you see him try not having sex with him, but instead just engage in conversation and do things that actually involve your minds and not your bodies, let him go home then email him and see if he responds as quickly and is willing to drive 2 hours to see you again if not then that is your clue that it is just a physical attraction for him and he's more about having sex with you than developing any feelings for you...

Answer 5

Well, you may never know; you hopped into bed too soon, and now he has his cake, and can eat it too! maybe he does like you lots; no doubt he likes the sex. He's got a good thing going, and as long as the sex is free and agreeable, he'll do what it takes to keep it.
Nothing in the books says that adults can't have passionate sex. . . with or without love. Lust is lust, whether it be teens or adults. I think that if you really want to know the answer, you need to slow this fire down.

Answer 6

Just enjoy your time with him if you ask you may scare him off. Let him be the first to say something. If you don't feel comfortable about something maybe you should reevaluate things on your side of the relationship. I hope it's all you want and need. Good Luck

Answer 7

tell him i love you, in a serious way not while youre having sex or something. usually this phrase hits guys pretty well, but if he does feel the same way emotionally and a lot, then hell react quickly. but if he thinks thats a sign to have sex again, then it might be physical. but it REALLY sounds emotional and good!! ur lucky!!

Answer 8

u may try 2 ask him instead of us, cuz we dont kno. however, if he is only physically attracted 2 u and lies that he is emotionally attracted 2 u, so he could lie again. but if he is emotionally attracted 2 u, then he might b telling the truth when he tells u he is emotionally attracted. so, the only real way 2 find out is 2 ask him 2 marry u, and i know this may sound rude, but its the only way.

Answer 9

6 weeks remember, its normal to feel like that at this stage of a relationship. see if it lasts over 6 months and maybe you will feel different. just relax and enjoy it for now.

Answer 10

well ihave to say you are one lucky woman! so if you have this good relationship with him then the best advice would be talk to him! i know it can be scary to talk about your feelings but if you trust him then you should be ok. just start talking to him more about your feelings, how you feel when your together, how you feel when your apart from him. guys have a harder time sometimes talking about their feelings than we do so he probably does feel the same but just doesn't know how to express it yet. so if he hears more of how you feel then he in turn can start to feel more comfortable talking about how he feels. don't rush him but just let him know how much he means to you!!