i've been depressed lately. i'm 22 and my college semester just ended. i just recieved a communications certificate and i'm only 6 or 7 classes away from getting an associate's degree in liberal arts. then i'll be transferring to state college. anyway last summer i felt like i had everything, i was incredibly happy, things were going great, i had a g/f of one year to whom i was about to move in with, had a best friend that i did everything with etc. then me and my g/f broke up because she said she wasnt ready for committment anymore and just wanted to have fun, find herself, etc that she's scared to be with someone at 21 who she feels like she could be with forever when shes with me. so yeah we broke. and now shes still calling me wanting to be friends, that she loves me, says when shes ready for a committed thing she wants me *maybe* but doesnt want me to put my life on hold. wants us to date other people for more experiences since we're so young. and then my best friend...he gets
2006-12-14 14:53:51 · 8 answers · asked by Marissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
married to a woman at 20 years of age after dating for two months who has two kids with two different guys. he ditches me, isnt my friend, bc his new wife says she doesnt like me and says i dont respect her which isnt true.
i just feel so different how so much has changed. i went from knowing where im going to being scared and depressed bc i lost two people i greatly cared about.
2006-12-14 14:55:31 · update #1
Come on man. The earth have billion of wonderful people , whom you can enjoy being together, not just base on 2 people only.
I suggest you pack your thing and go travel around the globe, see, feel the wonderful place and people.
2006-12-14 15:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mat D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you start to feeling better. you must find happiness in yourself and not other people. I am sorry that you lost your friend and gf. However you should realize that you can still maintain a friendship with your guy friend, just know that he is a married man with priorities. Married people have friends too. Now about your girlfriend... Do not get back with her. I am almost 100% sure that she left you so that she could play the field or pursue a relationship with someone else. Do not allow her to come back in your life and open up those old wounds in your heart.
Good Luck.
Love yourself and all will work out fine.
2006-12-14 23:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tonya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your head up, you are still young things will look up for you. I know what it is like to be on top of the world then to just fall to the very bottom. I was very happily married for over six years with my husband. We had a little boy and was planning on having our second child when my husband was killed in a car accident. My world fell apart, I didn't know if I could move on or even be happy again. It has been nearly 3 years now and I am happy with my life. Being depressed is just part of life, but if it gets to be too much there is nothing wrong with talking to someone. Believe me, it just helps to get things off your chest. Good luck, things will get better. :)
2006-12-14 23:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by asking away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few months ago I was severely depressed, to a point where I started to self-harm. What you need to do is talk to someone, anyone: a friend, a parent, or sibling; before that depression gets worse. Of course talking to someone who understands what you're going through is always better. Don't keep everything in, let it out. Talk about how you feel. And try to get back on your feet as soon as possible. This isn't a lot but I hope it still helps. If you want to talk to someone, you can email me anytime, lil_lawry@yahoo.com.au
2006-12-14 23:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...... patrolled the streets of iraqi capital. Trained in the navy seal with 4 other teammates for 6 years. We all walking in the streets. Suddenly a sniper shot one of my teammate in the chest, ending his life there. Opened fired back and we were surrounded. We called extra support, nearest support will be there in 20 minutes. 4 man team fought against an army of enemy. Pinned down and hopeless but we kept on fighting. one by one my close friends, like my brothers all died from gunshot wounds. I was shot in the leg but I could still fight. I could have retreated, but I didn't want to leave my close friends behind. Stayed in the turmoil until it was over. Received the silver star and now trying my best to move on from that day.
2006-12-14 23:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to put trust in yourself you have a great thing going for you and forget about that chic you cant put your life on hold for anyone you have to do whats right for you if you just belive in yourself and know that you are cabale of all things your depression soon will turn into happines always remember life is only what you make it if your friend is really your friend he will soon come around just be happy for him and find new friends go on a couple dates get loose have some sex (just rap it up) really you ,your family and God is all you need
2006-12-14 23:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be advised: It will get much harder than this if you are lucky. What you are now viewing as problems that are holding you back or making you feel down are really opportunities for you to grow and lift yourself up. Focus on you right now and everything will work out. Trust me.
2006-12-14 23:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Twinki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i advised you to go on with your life without your gf around. Move on sothat all your dreams will be realized. In life, love is never planned, it does not happen for a reason, but when love is real it becomes your plan for life and your reason for living. The right girl will come along your way without your knowing.
2006-12-14 23:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by naoj_75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋