My dad is leaving after christmas!and i would like to go with my dad and come visit my mom some days.My mom has always been with me seens i was little and always took care of me!(i love my mama)but i would like to spend time with my dad more!What should i do?Should i go?or should i stay with mama and visit dad somedays!I need advice before christmas!
2006-12-14 14:47:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should spend time with both of your parents, but as long as the courts give a choice it is nothing to feel bad about either way. Your parents are getting divorced and have to deal with it. You, unfortunately, just get caught in the middle. May God go with you.
2006-12-14 14:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by twicewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, tough one. Splitting parents is always a tough desicion. If you want to get together with your dad more, I'd suggest maybe living with him for like a month, but then coming back to your mom and visiting your dad a couple days a week. But you really should stay with your main caregiver.
2006-12-14 22:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by floppybelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna be very hard for your mom if your dad leaves her. Even harder for her if you go with him. If you really feel like you need to go with your dad I say go, but tell her ahead of time so she's not as hurt.
2006-12-14 22:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are but it sounds like you're old enough to make these decisions on your own. Just tell your mom the truth and be prepared to give her your reasons because she will be hurt no doubt. Good-luck sweetie and follow your heart.
2006-12-14 22:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be surprised to learn your dad doesn't want you to go with him. Have you discussed it with him? What you really need to do is ask both of them to sit down and talk with you about it and see both of their reactions. Just be honest about your feelings. Honesty is always best.
2006-12-14 22:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down with both your parents and discuss this with them. Be honest on how you feel. your and your parents are the only ones who can work this out. noone else knows your family situation. Best of luck.
2006-12-14 22:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people do sh** like this at Christmas? Is it so it will hurt every year at Christmas? The ultimate punishment forever?
2006-12-14 22:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Karen M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be truthful. Mothers love their children unconditionally and as long as you are truthful and say everything, she will understand. Don't worry. Be strong.
2006-12-14 23:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you love her but you want to know you dad more
2006-12-14 22:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by The King of Games 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay withher a little bit then tell her you want your dad
2006-12-14 22:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by manna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋