hypothetically speaking here (because i'm single)..girls..if your boyfriend had kissed the same girl on a few different occasions while you were dating..would you end it? do any of you actually forgive after cheating, or is any form of cheating in your eyes a quick end to your relationship?
i know alot of girls who stand if different places with this...personally any cheating unless it was one kiss..just once..and if he was very drunk (without feelings for the girl) i would forgive him...there'd be hell to pay though...
2006-12-14 14:43:41 · 8 answers · asked by luckmess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Teach him a lesson. Tell him there is a costume party and tell him you really want to dress him like a girl for it. (there is no party) or it is just a regular party. Dress him real pretty and take lots of pictures. Now you have a choice, take him to the regular party and as soon as you get just inside run off to the car and drive away, and leave him forever. The other option is to threaten to show the pictures to all of his friends if he kisses her again.
2006-12-14 14:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UGH!!! I would like to know the answers to this one. I got an e-mail that they saw my man kissing some girl.. I asked him about it and he denied the whole thing. Don't know what I am going to do! I want to leave him for that but it's soooo hard because he's an agressive guy. I think if I really saw him YES definitely leave that guy. There shouldn't be any excuses! Drunk or not drunk... they still kissed. There will always be an excuse to why a guy cheats... especially if they don't want to lose you.
2006-12-14 22:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, a kiss is just a kiss and i wouldn't care if my boyfriend kissed some random girl at a party, well i might not be thrilled but i don't think i would break up with him for it unless our relationship was very serious. if he was actually conducting a relationship with some other girl and regularly kissing her while we were dating, that would be a different story. there's a difference between, like, drunkenly kissing a friend and romantically kissing someone who is not your boyfriend. i dont think my bf would be mad if i just kissed one of my guy friends, so i wouldn't get mad at him, but i'd be like, "okay dude don't make a habit of it"
2006-12-14 22:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by emspec369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im open minded about thousands of things including girl to girl relationships and all that stuff but if my boyfriend whether drunk nor serious, if he kissed a girl on few different occassions while we are an item,,,i would definitely end it, i know it might sound really like a close minded person's answer,but i want respect, if the man want me to respect him, he better know how to control himself in any situation as selfish as impossible i would only give myself to a man who sees me and loves me more than any woman out there including his mother
2006-12-14 22:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would end it without thinking about it. I have been with my man over three years and we both agree that if one of us did any thing with any other sex than it would be over. i love my man with my whole heart i would never do anything to hurt our relationship, as well as he feels the same. I dont think anyone should forgive their spouse if they cheated, if they get away with it than they will know that its okay and do it again, even if you did make them pay at the end.
2006-12-14 22:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing another girl of several occasions? No way!!! Once maybe yes but many times, absolutely no way ................. unless of course he doesn't mind you kissing other cute guys all the time :-)
2006-12-14 22:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cheating what so ever, I would dump him, he might of only had one kiss but I have more respect for myself then that :) :) :)
2006-12-14 22:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump his a**
2006-12-14 22:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋